Oasis Life Coaching

18/08/2018

THE UNSUNG HEROES

Traditionally parenting was basically the sole role of a woman, from conception to maturity.
She carried the pregnancy, bore and nurtured the child.

However, in today's modern world, parenthood roles have evolved, with men becoming.....

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04/07/2018

AGAINST ALL ODDS

Beating the odds - overcoming improbability - for me, smacks of ‘MIRACLES’, in capital letters.
Something ’SUPERNATURAL’ takes place that makes human race stop and take note, saying…........

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17/06/2018

LETTING GO..

"I will let go and let God." This is a phrase most of us have used at the very least, once in our lifetime.

However, truth be told.. How many of us can truly attest to living by the real principle of this infamous statement.
More often than not.....

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http://oasislifecoaching.com.au/Article/24/letting-go

18/05/2018

RECLAIM YOURSELF.....NOW!

There has been times in our lives when we have felt victims - victims of circumstances.

Invariably, this tendency begins at a very young age and spills into adulthood, leading to certain patterns of thoughts and behaviors that eventually...

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07/05/2018

LITTLE HINGES SWINGING BIG DOORS

Would you be surprised to know that, more often than not, the major breakthroughs and outstanding outcomes are results of little tweaks we effect in our lives?

According to an eminent psychologist Dr Walter Dill Scott, Mental attitude plays a far more important role in our success or failure than does mental capacity.

Strategic planning and solid structures are great BUT not enough without understanding the ‘inner game’.

Attitude is Altitude. This free ebook may change the way you think...FOREVER....and take you to places you never thought possible.

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26/04/2018

TURNING POINT

Most of us, during different stages of our lives will experience a Turning Point akin to 'A Road to Damascus moment' found in the Good Book.

These experiences are mainly precipitated by a chain of events either tragic or miraculous.
Sometimes, like J.K. Rowling says........

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Most of us, during different stages of our lives will experience a Turning Point akin to 'A Road to Damascus moment' in the Good Book. This is mainly precipitated by a chain of events either tragic or miraculous. Sometimes, like J.K. Rowling says; ‘Rock bottom becomes the solid foundation..... The...

14/04/2018

MIRROR!..MIRROR!..On The WALL

Are you looking in the mirror?

Not really!!

You are looking out the window wanting to find reasons...
So you may explain yourself?
So you may point fingers?

Sample this...

“It’s about my son. He drives me nuts... He irritates me when he is not responsible... When he doesn’t do his homework... When he doesn’t do his chores like I told him to... ...every day,... for the last few years... He is mean spirited to his sister”. Er!.. your son is supposed to do his ...

06/04/2018

KEEPING THE DREAM ALIVE.

From conception to date, most of the memorable milestones in my life were marked by 'Oops moments'.

Growing up, I was the child that just didn't seem to quite fit in with the crowd so to speak.

Through school life,......

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From conception to date, most of the memorable milestones in my life were marked by 'Oops moments'. Growing up, I was the child that just didn't seem to quite fit in with the crowd so to speak. Through school life, I was the shy girl who preferred to escape reality through her make belief world of n...

25/03/2018

UNCOVERING the SECRETS of WEIGHT CONTROL

We have all been trapped in our bodies in the struggle to lose that excess body fat and possibly minimize the jiggle.

Dieting, fasting and work-out routines have......

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We have all been trapped in our bodies in the struggle to lose that excess body fat and possibly minimize the jiggle. Dieting, fasting and work-out routines have not delivered the sort of lasting weight outcomes we desire. Why is it so difficult to get rid of extra weight? Why is it that when we get...

19/03/2018

LIVING THE DREAM

A little girl growing up in a small municipal town on the slopes of Mt Kenya in the 70s had a dream to travel the world.
Notwithstanding the fact that she did not know .......

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A little girl growing up in a small municipal town on the slopes of Mt Kenya in the 70s had a dream to travel the world. Notwithstanding the fact tha

09/03/2018

STAMPING The Chain of Pain....

“It’s about my son. He drives me nuts...
He irritates me when he is not responsible...
When he doesn’t do his homework...
When he doesn’t do his chores like I told him to.....every day,... for the last few years...
He is mean spirited to his sister”.

Er!.. your son is supposed to do his homework, is that right?

“Correct!... why would I pay for him to go to a private school?”

And what’s the reality?

“Reality?... What do you mean?”

What is it that has actually been happening for the few years you are referring to?

“As I said, he doesn’t do what he is supposed to do all the time”.

Your son doesn’t do what he’s supposed to do all the time?

“Yeah”

Do you do your homework and all you’re supposed to do all the time?

“No. But isn’t it important, as a parent, to make the children do what they are supposed to do?”

And how has that worked for you?

“It has not. That’s why I am here”

You didn’t answer my question!

“Sorry!... ask me again”

Do you do your homework and all you’re supposed to do,... all the time?

“Not all the time”.

Yet you expect your son to do his homework and all he is supposed to do,... all the time”.

“Yes. Isn’t it important when you’re raising and guiding your children, to have certain expectations?”

Yeah!

“ And he’s not a friendly kid either...
Like the other day when his sister wouldn’t let him into her room.....he shouted at her, ‘I hate you; you’re fat and ugly’...
That was heart-rending”.

So, how do you get to handle all that?

“ It’s almost getting out of control...
I am sorry but I have to say my husband’s parenting skills are wanting. That’s an issue too...
So, I find myself on my own,... managing a home of little monsters”.

Little monsters, did you say?

“Yes!... monsters!... these are not kids I would have wished to have. Especially so, Marcus...
My mother thinks he’s weird!”.

I am beginning to notice a pattern...
Your husband is a problem because of his parenting skills...
Your children are a problem because they are monsters...
Obviously, that leaves ONLY ONE GOOD person in the equation...
Have you noticed that also?

“Wait a minute... what does that mean?”

What do you think it could mean?

“It sounds like I judge everyone”

What else could it mean?

“I have set standards for everyone and I get pi**ed when they are not met...
Do you think I am the problem?”

You’re not a problem... ..it’s only that you’ve made your happiness and stability dependent upon other people’s behaviors...
You expect them to fit in your ‘box’ for you to be happy.

After you have cultivated a culture of UNCONDITIONAL LOVE,... you’ll begin to notice the falling away of most of the things that used to irritate you... giving you poise and equanimity...

And what is so strange is that when that happens,... the others will gravitate towards your center,.. and all the ‘mayhem’ will slowly crystallize into PEACE and HARMONY.

“So, all these chaos are because of me?”

And the PEACE and HARMONY that will ensue,... will be because of you.

“OMG!.. I wish I’d known this”

Pick up from there,... and good luck.🍀

09/03/2018