23/08/2026
You know the relationship needed to end… so why do you still feel guilty? 💛
Guilt can be one of the most confusing emotions after separation or divorce.
Especially if you were the one who left.
You may know logically that staying was no longer healthy.
You may remember how unhappy, lonely or depleted you had become.
And still, a voice inside asks:
"Did I give up?"
"Did I hurt everyone?"
"Should I have tried harder?"
Here’s something important.
Feeling guilty does not automatically mean you did something wrong.
Sometimes guilt appears because you broke an old role.
The peacemaker.
The loyal wife.
The one who keeps everyone together.
The woman who puts herself last.
When you've spent years measuring goodness by how much you endure, choosing yourself can feel strangely uncomfortable.
At Reset Your Life & Shine, we help women understand emotions like guilt so they stop treating every difficult feeling as a verdict on their character.
Over three transformative days, you’ll begin to:
✨ Separate guilt from genuine responsibility
✨ Understand why women often carry more blame than belongs to them
✨ Recognise the roles and beliefs shaping your choices
✨ Rebuild self-trust without needing to justify your entire past
✨ Learn how to move forward without punishing yourself for choosing change
You can be sad that people were hurt.
You can grieve what ended.
You can wish the story had been different.
And still know that leaving was the healthiest choice available to you.
Those truths can exist together. 💕
Join Fiona May and Sandra Lee for Reset Your Life & Shine — a transformational 3-day live event for single, separated and divorced women.
📍 Brisbane | 9–11 October 2026
📍 Sydney | 16–18 October 2026
📍 Perth | 23–25 October 2026
Reserve your place here:
https://bit.ly/ryl-fs
You do not have to spend your next chapter paying emotionally for a decision that saved you from continuing to abandon yourself. ✨
With love,
Fiona May & Sandra Lee x
Divorce Recovery & Life Transition Coaches
Women on Transition