Salayeh Self

shahra you turned 16 xx now the journey of bike lessons car lessons are upon us - freedom is within your grasp lol # # # I LOVE YOU so friggin much x your my bestie, your deep beautiful quirky soft stubborn feminine a tomboy funny empathetic compassionate creative, fierce and so much wisdom for your age. your becoming a young woman and my protective mechanisms are more heightened than ever, it’s so different having a boy to a girl the rules are not the same♥️ you are such a gift, so grateful you chose me to be your mum, having you has taught me so much about a woman in her softness and the magnetic power that creates which also makes me terrified # # # you know, we have our children so that one day we can have a deep friendship but this has been this way from the minute you were in my belly, then when you were born and everyday since, the day you were born the nurse kept taking you off me to put in the crib beside me, she wd leave i would pick you up and put you right next me lol the love i have received because of who you are and is to much to explain, i wish so much for you - in our private letters you know this. today i celebrate the queen you are x happy 16 boo x

This is where DARVO becomes weaponized — especially against mothers.

Tactics:

Fabricate instability

Paint them as “high conflict”

Claim parental alienation

Emotional collapse in front of judges

Judges and mediators who are not trauma-literate fall for it constantly

Institutional / workplace reports:

The whistleblower becomes the “problem employee”

The abuser claims “harassment”

Leadership closes ranks

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