It’s easy to believe that adversity automatically makes us stronger.
In my experience, that’s not always true.
What shapes us most is the meaning we give our experiences and how we choose to respond.
Because while we can’t always control what happens to us, we can influence what happens next.
Brett Robbo Coach
Proud Father & Husband. Performance Coach Optimising Human Potential Through Mindset, Breathwork, Movement & Holistic Health. Podcaster.
Optimistic lover of life and addicted to Gratitude. I coach busy business owners, career driven legends and elite athletes on how to take their health, wealth and relationships to the next level. Common transformations I enable are from stressed, frustrated and feeling stuck, to inspired, impactful and successful, with clarity of the future and energy to enjoy life more - No Burnout! My background
If you’re feeling stressed, overwhelmed, anxious, emotionally heightened, or mentally “sped up”, splashing cold water on your face may help rapidly calm the nervous system.
Cold water stimulates receptors around the eyes, cheeks, and forehead, activating part of the mammalian dive reflex - an ancient survival mechanism that can help slow the heart rate and shift the body toward a more regulated state.
It doesn’t magically remove stress, but it may help interrupt the physiological stress response and create a small circuit breaker in the moment.
And yes… the colder the water, generally the stronger the response.
Is it time to get buckets of iced water around the office? 🤔😆
Give it a go and let me know how it feels.
Try the physiological sigh 1-3 times as a ‘pattern interrupt’ when you’re in a heightened state.
It’s also great to use between sets when exercising.
Give it a go and let me know how it feels 👍
I’m curious, do you have trouble executing this skill 🤔
Let’s not neglect the recipes that work best for us, at the times when we need them the most 🙏
Every task has two forces at play:
Blockers and Movers.
Blockers show up in real, tangible ways: Time constraints, resource limitations, stakeholder pressure, competing priorities.
They also show up internally:
Doubt, overthinking, hesitation, disempowering beliefs, lack of clarity.
Most high-performing teams are very good at identifying the external pressures.
Where they tend to fall short is addressing what’s happening internally.
And that’s often the layer that dictates how effectively they move forward.
Movers are what shift you forward. Clarity on the task, focus on what you can control, and the ability to take action without getting caught in the noise.
Most people try to push harder.
High performers get clear on what’s in the way and move through it with intent.
This is a genuine shift when teams and leaders start getting it right!
Looking to get more out of yourself or your team? The way we’re fuelling ourselves can have a massive impact on our energy levels, mental clarity, plus our current and future health.
Every meal you eat is sending a signal to your cells.
That signal either supports your body…
or slowly works against it.
At a cellular level, your body is constantly deciding:
👉 Do I absorb and use this for energy and support cellular health?
👉 Or does this create stress, inflammation, and cellular damage?
Get it right, and you get:
👍 Stable energy
👍 Clear thinking
👍 Stronger long-term health
Get it wrong, and you feel it:
👎 Energy dips
👎 Brain fog
👎 Increased inflammation
In our Fuel and Focus module, we strip away all the noise around diets.
Vegan, vegetarian, carnivore, omnivore – it doesn’t matter.
What matters is how your body responds.
We focus on timeless principles that support:
👉 Blood sugar balance
👉 Insulin regulation
👉 Consistent energy
👉 Brain & body health
We even test it in real time – different foods, different responses. And the results don’t lie.
Because the difference isn’t theoretical.
It’s physiological.
Fuel drives performance.
And your cells are always keeping score.
I’m curious, is this an area of focus for your organisation when looking at supporting staff performance & wellbeing 🤔
By the way, the .nutrition collagen bar was the winner by far 🥇 👏 👌
There’s a lot of uncertainty in the world at the moment and life can feel like it’s moving very fast.
Pressure is coming at us all the time, personally and professionally.
Which gives all the more reason to remember this simple but empowering concept: Focus on what we can control.
When things get busy, uncertain, overwhelming, we can start spending too much energy on things we can’t control.
👉 Other people’s behaviours.
👉 Other people’s opinions and attitude.
It’s important to be aware of those things - but we can’t afford to dwell on them.
So let’s reset and remind ourselves there are three buckets:
1) What we can’t control - and need to stop draining energy on.
2) What we can influence - through how you show up.
3) And what we CAN control.
And here’s the truth - the most empowering way to create influence is to be the standard:
👉Our energy.
👉Our attitude.
👉Our behaviours under pressure.
Because that’s what we actually own.
No matter how chaotic things get, that part is always ours.
When everything feels uncertain, clarity comes back to one place - focus on the controllables.
Lead through how we show up.
And be aware of what we can’t control but don’t drain our precious energy on it.
Hold your standard - that’s what builds trust and momentum 👊
Pressure doesn’t show up when it’s convenient.
It often shows up in the moments that matter most:
👉 A big decision.
👉 A difficult conversation.
👉 A period of uncertainty where others are looking to you for direction.
The reality of modern work is that uncertainty isn’t the exception.
It’s the environment.
So the real skill becomes learning how to perform well inside uncertainty.
In today’s workshop, “Sustainable Performance in Uncertain Times,” we explored practical tools that help with exactly that:
👉 The Breath to regulate the nervous system and stay calm under pressure
👉 Mindset to regulate your attention and stay clear under pressure
👉 Other simple processes that steady you when things around you speed up and feel a bit shaky.
Because when pressure arrives, we don’t always rise to the occasion.
We often fall back on what we’ve practised most.
I’m interested - what helps you perform well when things feel uncertain? 🤔
Thank you to for putting on such a great event for your community and having me involved 🙏
What are the things you value most - and how are your daily choices supporting them?
Today we took a leadership team through our Resilient Bodies – Strong Minds module.
We spoke about health span - not just how long we live, but how well we function as we age.
One of the tools we use is PACE training.
Short sessions. Less than 20 minutes.
Scientifically shown to burn more fat and help maintain more lean muscle than longer steady-state cardio.
But we also discussed something simple.
Modern research shows many of us now sit more hours than we sleep.
Which is why regular movement through the day matters - helping regulate blood sugar, circulation and the nervous system.
You don’t need hours of training.
Just effective exercise and movement.
I’d love to hear from you - how do you build more movement into your day, or use effective exercise to generate energy rather than drain it? 🤷♂️
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