01/07/2020
This is such a beautiful way to strengthen your young one’s capacity to put space between a thought or a feeling, and a response. The more they can expand that space - and the space only needs to be for a moment - the more room there will be for a healthier, less reactive response.
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Thoughts very quickly become feelings, which drive behaviour. Anxious thoughts drive anxious feelings, which drives anxious behaviour (fight or flight) - but it doesn't have to be this way. Mindful bubbles is a way to teach kids that they don't have to 'become' their thoughts. Rather than having a thought and immediately reacting to that thought (we all go there), treating the thought mindfully by observing it in a bubble makes way for the thought to be there without driving an automatic behaviour (such as avoidance).
Being able to let thoughts be there without buying into them is a powerful skill to have. In terms of anxiety, it opens the way for anxious thoughts to ride with us, without giving them the steering wheel. It's a difficult thing to do, and it might take time to master the skills when thoughts and feelings are big, but like all good things, building strong, beautiful, non-reactive brains take time and plenty of practice.♥️