30/05/2024
Learning Curve Growth ABC
A - WELLBEING GROWTH CHALLENGE – Looking Forward - Positively Focused ~ every morning, think about what you are looking forward to most for the day ahead, no matter how small, write it down, and enjoy it when it happens. What is something that you look forward to often and why?
B - GROWTH THOUGHTS – FOMO and JOMO
The 21st century has seen the emergence of a nasty new addiction called FOMO, the Fear Of Missing Out, which is caused by overuse of social media. The non-stop images from screens have made many people totally dependent on the small feel good dopamine hits which come from seeing them endlessly flash before their eyes.
Also, the 24/7 fake postings of people’s pretend worlds, which actually have nothing at all to do with their real lives, are sucking many of us into believing that this is how we should want to live our lives. The real world doesn’t seem to stimulate some of us anymore, causing low moods, anxiety and often depression.
We just have to take a walk and see how many people are mindlessly glued to their phones, scrolling like robots. If we happen to be one of these people, we seriously need to ask ourselves, “is what we are doing going to make any kind of positive contribution or difference in our lives?” It’s not rocket science for us to work out that the answer is NO.
But there is an excellent strategy that can defeat FOMO and stop it in its tracks. It is called JOMO, the Joy Of Missing Out. It is based on us coming to the realisation that we can find real joy and happiness in not wanting to know about everything that is happening on social media, because most of it is rubbish.
Try this. Reflect on what we want for ourselves, our goals, and write down how social media is going to contribute to us achieving them. Then, write down any important or valuable information that we have learned from social media over the past week. It is highly likely that we didn’t write anything down. Social media just occupies us meaninglessly!
We don’t need to connected online every minute of the day. When we choose to turn off our phones regularly every day, we will experience the wonderful uplifting feelings which come from JOMO. Reflect, when is a time that you forgot your phone and had a great time? Let’s start enjoying the beauty and joy of our individual lives by connecting with ourselves, and not with the fake and pretend world of social media.
C – CHARACTER STRENGTHS BRAINSTORM – Curiosity
Exploring and being interested in learning more. What is one thing that you can do every day to use this character strength to build your agency in the world?
“Curiosity is a mind in search of knowledge.” Thibaut
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