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01/09/2026

𝐌𝐘 𝐇𝐔𝐒𝐁𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐉𝐔𝐒𝐓 𝐔𝐍𝐃𝐑𝐄𝐒𝐒 πŒπ„ 𝐁𝐔𝐓 𝐈 πƒπŽπ'𝐓 π‹πŽπ•π„ π‡πˆπŒπŸ€”

𝐃𝐄𝐀𝐑 𝐃𝐑. π’πˆπŒπŽπ

Please hide my ID. I'm a married woman and late 40s both me and hubby blessed with 4 kids. The problem I feel this marriage has outlived itself it has been 14 years of good times but the past 7 years has been nothing shot of endurance than happiness. Okay my problem, my hubby is a decon at church and whenever he thinks I'm wrong he quotes scriptures on me and he doesnt do the same for himself. He is always right and I have not say in this marriage. Anyway that aside, the major issues is now the bedroom, I feel like I'm now a slave for his appetite. He is getting testasterone therapy after struggling with ED and I think one of the side effects is high s*x drive. Anytime he wants I must drop whatever I'm doing whether its attending to kids, or cooking or cleaning. He doesn't even touch me or talk to me nice during the day. I'm just pulled out of wherever I'm and undressed. I'm now tired I don't feel the connection with him anymore and I don't love him anymore. If I complain I'm tired he shouts at me and say I'm eating his food, I'm a good for nothing woman with zero contribution to his life, if it wasn't his little kids he would have divorced me. I'm tired of hearing this although I don't have anywhere to go, I'm willing to end this marriage I'm mentally tired and senior people at church sort of fear him to correct him cause of his financial givings. Other ladies I confided in just say just pray and stay for the kids too. But for how long like this

01/09/2026

𝐖𝐇𝐀𝐓 π˜πŽπ” π“πŽπ‹π„π‘π€π“π„ π“πŽπƒπ€π˜ ππ„π‚πŽπŒπ„π’ π˜πŽπ”π‘ ππŽπ‘πŒπ€π‹ π“πŽπŒπŽπ‘π‘πŽπ–.

If you tolerate dishonesty...

You teach people that honesty is optional.

If you tolerate disrespect...

You quietly lower the standard for how you deserve to be treated.

If you tolerate excuses...

You delay your own growth.

Healthy boundaries are not acts of selfishness.

They are acts of self-respect.

Protect your peace.

Protect your values.

Protect your future.

Β©Simon Bobo

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01/09/2026

The goal is not to look rich.
The goal is to become financially free.

One attracts attention.
The other creates peace.

01/09/2026

𝐇𝐄 ππŽπ– 𝐀𝐍𝐒𝐖𝐄𝐑 𝐂𝐀𝐋𝐋𝐒 πŽπ”π“π’πˆπƒπ„ 𝐓𝐇𝐄 π…π‹π€π“πŸ€”

𝐃𝐄𝐀𝐑 𝐃𝐑. π’πˆπŒπŽπ

Please hide my ID, I'm 34 and boyfriend is 38. We have been dating for 12 months but last month I noticed he answer calls outside his flat when he is with me or if we are sitting in the car he will step out. He is said it's work related stuff that are private and confidential, like i mean work stuff at 10pm sometimes for someone who works in a bank. My question doc, if you think your partner is cheating and you ask them just show you messages either text, facebook messages or insta but they turn it around saying your acting crazy, and won’t show you. Would you consider that they are? Wouldn’t they just show you, if nothing to hide? I love him so much but I think he is starting to take advantage of me and maybe cheating.

01/09/2026

π„πˆπ†π‡π“ 𝐓𝐑𝐔𝐓𝐇𝐒 π€ππŽπ”π“ 𝐒𝐔𝐂𝐂𝐄𝐒𝐒 𝐀𝐍𝐃 π‹πˆπ…π„

β€’ Stop chasing applause, build a life you are proud of.
β€’ Learn to delay gratification. Great things take time.
β€’ Protect your name more than your possessions.
β€’ Don't let temporary emotions make permanent decisions.
β€’ Surround yourself with people who challenge you to grow.
β€’ A peaceful home is one of life's greatest blessings.
β€’ Success without good health is an incomplete victory.
β€’ Never stop becoming a student of life.

Many people pray for a better life.

Very few become the kind of person who can sustain it.

Become that person.

Β©Simon Bobo

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01/09/2026

You don't build trust by demanding it.

You build it by becoming the kind of person who consistently deserves it.

Promises may start trust.

Consistency keeps it alive.

31/08/2026

π’πŽπŒπ„ πŽπ… 𝐓𝐇𝐄 ππˆπ†π†π„π’π“ ππ‹π„π’π’πˆππ†π’ 𝐈𝐍 π‹πˆπ…π„ 𝐀𝐑𝐄 𝐓𝐇𝐄 πŽππ„π’ π˜πŽπ” 𝐇𝐀𝐕𝐄 π“πŽ π†π‘πŽπ– πˆππ“πŽ.

Sometimes the opportunity arrives before you feel ready.

The promotion.
The business.
The marriage.
The leadership role.

Don't let fear convince you that you are incapable.

Prepare.
Pray.
Learn.
Work hard.

Growth often happens after you say "yes," not before.

Believe in your ability to become the person your calling requires.

Β©Simon Bobo

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31/08/2026

A person who borrows to impress others...

Ends up working to repay people who were never impressed.

Build your future.

Not your image.

31/08/2026

ππˆππ„ πƒπ„π‚πˆπ’πˆπŽππ’ 𝐓𝐇𝐀𝐓 π˜πŽπ”π‘ 𝐅𝐔𝐓𝐔𝐑𝐄 𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐅 π–πˆπ‹π‹ π“π‡π€ππŠ π˜πŽπ” π…πŽπ‘

β€’ Choose discipline over temporary pleasure.
β€’ Invest in knowledge before luxury.
β€’ Protect your peace from unnecessary drama.
β€’ Learn to communicate before problems become crises.
β€’ Save money before increasing your lifestyle.
β€’ Spend time with the people who truly matter.
β€’ Heal from yesterday before building tomorrow.
β€’ Be faithful in small responsibilities.
β€’ Never stop growing as a person.

Your future is not an accident.

It is the result of the choices you repeatedly make today.

Β©Simon Bobo

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31/08/2026

A healthy relationship is not one where you never argue. It is one where both people still choose respect, even when they disagree.

Love is tested less by good days...
And more by difficult conversations.

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