Di Live

Do you feel like you’ve spent years trying to fix yourself?
I did.
I consumed books and courses like my life depended on them.
Always looking for a better way.
Continually putting in more and more effort.
Until I realised - the problem isn’t that something is missing.
What I see now is, I’d simply become more aware of my conditioning than my true nature.

You don’t have to become someone new.
You just want to remember who you really are….who you’ve really been, all along.

…. Little by little without ever making a conscious decision ….we can drift away from ourselves. That’s why ‘things’ don’t satisfy. It’s not ‘having’ that we’re looking for, ….it’s being.

Sometimes we think life has become difficult, disappointing, or limited.
Maybe.
But most often what’s really happened is we’ve been looking through the same lens for so long we no longer realise we’re wearing it.
A lens of doubt.
A lens of fear.
A lens of “that’s just how life is.”
The beautiful thing about a lens is that it can be changed.
And when it is, the world can look very different.
What colour lenses are you wearing today?

Rather than asking “Do I feel ready?”, ask “Do I really want it?” If the answer is yes - decide to go forth, my friend! Once you decide, your first step will show up.

Imagine the seed of a great tree wondering, “Can I?”
Of course it can.
Everything required to become the tree is already there.
It simply unfolds through growth, day after day.
You’re no different.
The desire in you isn’t there by accident...it’s there because you’re made for this.

There’s not a ‘better’ version of you, just more of who you truly are.

Every great thing that’s happened in my life happened on the other side of the mental move called decision.
Not certainty.
Not having the whole plan.
Not waiting until I felt ready.
Just Decision.
I’ve become more and more aware that perhaps one of our greatest human advantages isn’t intelligence or effort.
It’s our ability to choose.
To decide.
To point ourselves in a direction and begin walking it.

Change is the only constant.
And it’s beautiful.
Relax and go with it.

Life can move quickly.
Before we realise it, we can find ourselves getting through the days rather than really noticing them.
Perhaps more isn’t always what we’re needing.
Maybe life isn’t asking us to do more.
Maybe it’s simply inviting us to be here for it.