Mumandmore

✍🏾Suspect was a victim, now suspect is a suspect 🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

Suspect wants a creative child, but suspect imposes rigid schedule and rules on her child🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

Suspect wants a child that uses her imagination but suspect pressures her children to conform to societal norms.😏😏😏

Suspect wants a strong willed child but suspect shields her children from challenges or failure thereby preventing them from learning how to think creatively to solve problems.🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

Suspect wants a confident child but suspect Interrupts or mocks her child’s pretend play or creative stories, which can make them feel self-conscious.😔😔

Suspect wants a bold child but suspect constantly measures a child against peers or siblings, thereby creating insecurity and reduce the desire to experiment.

Dear Mamma,

If you're guilty of the above, you're not just a suspect, you're a SUSPECT AND MORE.

Change before you turn into a KIRIMINAL😁😁🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

There's no parenting without mistakes, but we can unlearn, relearn and do better😉

Which other suspect vibes do you know?😁

Put them in the comment section 😉

Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest.❤️

Dear Mamma,

In the hustle and bustle of life, where you so often wear multiple hats; caregiver, professional, friend, mother, daughter, partner. It's easy to lose sight of one very important person: yourself.🥺

This is a gentle reminder that your well-being matters, and you deserve care and love just as much as you give it to others.🤗

Taking care of yourself isn't selfish; it's necessary. Your physical, mental, and emotional health form the foundation upon which you build your beautiful life.

Listen to your body; it often tells you what it needs. You can only give your best when you feel your best.,☺️

Your mind is your sanctuary. Allow yourself moments of quiet, reflection, and joy.

Ask for Help When Needed
You are not alone. Reach out to friends, family, or even professionals when you need support. Strength lies in recognizing when you need a helping hand.😉

Hey mamma,

Always remember, self-care is not a luxury; it’s a priority. By taking care of yourself, you not only thrive but also inspire others to do the same. You are worthy of every moment of love, care, and kindness you extend to yourself.

Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest ❤️

Dear Mamma,

How are you holding up?🤗

I know some days feels gloomy. You feel like you can't go on.🥺

You wonder, 'Where do I go from here?'

Would it get better? Because you're almost at your wits end.

Hey mamma,

There will be brighter days ahead, 🙂 even if they feel far away. And as hard as it may be to believe, this season will pass, and you will find your way through it. 🤗

You’re loved, you’re needed, and there’s so much more light and love still waiting for you.

Hold on just a little bit longer, one day at a time. You've come so far already, and you have so much strength within you. ☺️💪🏾

Just.....

Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest ❤️

✍🏾 If parenting is showing you shege, oya enter here👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾

Dear Mamma,

Do you know what you need to survive the tides of parenting?🤔

It is strength.

Strength is the resilience, patience, and emotional stability that allows you to navigate the challenges of raising children with grace and intention. ☺️

Parenting can be intense and unpredictable, so developing inner strength helps you stay calm, make wise decisions, and provide a safe, nurturing environment for your children.

Those who's done Parenting for at least 2 years, would agree it involves moments of frustration, especially when children are testing limits. Patience and self control comes in handy when managing your emotions, respond calmly rather than react impulsively, and model emotional regulation for your children.🤗

Parenting includes a lot of ups and downs, from sleepless nights to navigating difficult behaviors. Resilience allows you to bounce back from tough days, keep going with a positive attitude, and adapt to challenges without becoming overwhelmed.😩

Dear Mamma

Being kind to yourself during difficult times builds inner strength. Parents are often hard on themselves, feeling guilt or worry about being "perfect." Accepting that mistakes are part of growth helps you forgive yourself and stay emotionally strong.✌🏾

Trust your instincts and believe in your abilities to make the best choices for your family. This inner strength helps you stay steady when facing external pressures or criticisms.

Taking care of your own mental and physical health is essential. When you feel balanced and well, you’re more able to handle the demands of parenting. Personal growth activities, like reading, meditation, or journaling, can also reinforce your resilience.

Hey mamma,

Building inner strength is a continuous journey that comes with awareness, self-reflection, and practice. As you strengthen these qualities, you not only grow as a person but also become a more resilient and compassionate parent, capable of guiding your children through their own challenges.☺️

PS: Extend grace to yourself and your kids this week. You'd see the difference

Would you be doing that?

Let's know in the comment section 😉

Love, Laugh, Learn Lead and Live Life to the Fullest ❤️

✍🏾 I don't know what is wrong with my child, he is becoming distant......

Does the above sound familiar? If it does, get in here👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾

Dear Mamma,

Have you noticed you child become rebellious?

Has he become emotionally distant?
Does he avoid open communication?

Does he seem resistant of your authority?

Then it's posible, you brought him there🤧

How?

Has you child often complained about something you do that he dislikes but you kept doing?🤔🤔

Whatever it is, when your child feels unheard, disrespected or misunderstood, the parent -child bond can become strained.

This can even bring about a build of of frustration, anxiety and resentment in your child.

Ever wondered why some adult kids have little to no relationship with their parents?🤔

If children feel consistently disregarded, resentment toward the parent may build, creating long-term relational difficulties.

This resentment can carry into adolescence and adulthood, affecting the child's willingness to seek support from the parent in the future.

Dear Mamma,

This is a call for you to listen and change. Yes, you may be the boss of your kids now, but it won't always be so.

Listen and effect change in your behavior with your kids where necessary. E ga favour you las las😉

Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest ❤️

Who fear help?🤔🤔🤔🤔

Dear Mamma

Did you know, fear often limits potential, and society has, since time immemorial imposed restrictions on women's capabilities and freedoms?

Do you know that by embracing fearlessness, you challenge societal norms, asserts your independence, and become empowered to pursue your dreams and ambitions without hesitation?😃

Dear Mamma,

Fearlessness enables you to stand up against injustice, break stereotypes, and become a role model for others.

Be Fearless!💪🏾

It fosters confidence, resilience, and leadership, which are crucial in navigating challenges, whether personal or professional.

You desire a mindset that sees possibilities rather than obstacles? Be Fearless 😁

It's all you need to ultimately conquer 🎯

Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest ❤️

✍🏾When the chips are down, would dey come through for you out of duty or out of love?🤔

It's common place for parents to place everything above spending time with their kids😔

I know you want to say, buuuttttttttt, 😏😏

Dear Mamma,

Do you realize about how important it is to create quality time for your kids amidst the busy pace of life?🤔

As much as you're doing your best to provide for them and keep everything running smoothly, one of the most lasting gifts you can give them and in the long run, yourself, is your undivided attention.☺️

Children grow so quickly, and those moments of connection, no matter how small, can make a huge difference in their sense of security and happiness. Whether it’s setting aside time for family dinners, reading together before bed, or even going for walks, these shared experiences become treasured memories that shape their childhood.🤗🤗

Maybe try scheduling regular family activities or just a few minutes each day where you can put away all distractions and be present with them. It doesn't have to be anything grand – what they value most is your time and attention. It’s in these moments that they feel heard, loved, and supported, which can have a lifelong impact.

You’re doing an amazing job, and these moments of connection will make your bond even stronger.😘

Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest ❤️

Dear Mamma,

In the midst of all that you do and give. I know life can sometimes feel overwhelming, especially when you're constantly pouring your love, energy, and time into others. It's easy to lose sight of yourself in the process. But I wanted to remind you today to find joy — not just in the big, memorable moments but in the small, quiet ones, too.☺️☺️

Take a moment and breathe. Feel the warmth of the sun on your face or the softness of a breeze through the window. Listen to the laughter of your child or the silence of a peaceful room. Let yourself pause, even if it's just for a minute. It's in these little moments that joy hides, waiting for you to notice.😊

Remember that you deserve happiness, not just for what you do for others but simply because you are. You are worthy of joy in its purest, simplest forms. It doesn’t have to come from achieving or being everything to everyone. Sometimes it comes from allowing yourself to just be — to embrace imperfection, to laugh at life’s chaos, and to find comfort in knowing that what you're doing is enough.🤗🤗

Joy is already within you; it’s not something you need to chase. It’s in the love you give, the strength you show, and the hope you carry. Let it bubble up, let it fill you, and let it remind you of all the beauty that life, in all its messiness, still offers.🥰

You are amazing. You are enough. And joy is always yours to find.😚😘

Love, Laugh, Learn Lead and Live Life to the Fullest ❤️

✍🏾 Dear Mamma

How are you? ☺️

How is life treating you?

Life often teaches people unique lessons based on their circumstance, regardless of what life's taking through, find Joy😊

Did you say how?🤔

Here's how👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾

Learn to trust the timing of your life, release control, and accept that some things unfold naturally. 😊


Realise Challenges could be life's way of pushing you to strengthen your ability to bounce back from setbacks and adjust to new realities.😉

Keep in mind, life may be reminding you to appreciate what you have, whether it's health, relationships, or small daily blessings.🤲🏾

Be encouraged to reflect on your inner world, discovering habits, fears, or strengths they hadn’t noticed before. It's one way to enhance growth and be self aware 😉

Dear Mamma,

Learn balance.
Strive to prioritize self-care, balance work and personal life, or set boundaries in relationships.

Humility and Compassion is key. Life could be teaching you empathy, recognizing others' struggles, or appreciating how interconnected we all are.

Hey girl
Embrace courage and boldness. Learning to step outside your comfort zones, take risks, and pursue long-held dreams. 🤗🤗

Everyone's life lessons evolve with their journey, but they often revolve around each other.

Find Joy! Find life🥰

Love, Laugh Learn Lead and Live Life to the Fullest ❤️

PS : Is life taking you through something? Care to share?
Let's have it in the comment section🤗

✍🏾Are they ready?🤔

Are they prepared to get into their part of the world as responsible people?😏

Do they understand the need to be kind?

Have you done a good job letting them know and understand that it's not a good thing to make fun of people's skin, their height, their inability and even their food?

Yes! Their food😏 because some of them feel like the quality of food one brings to school is the reason why they should be mocked or not.

Do they understand the concept "All fingers are fingers but all fingers are not equal"

Dear Mamma

It's a new school year, chances are your kids would meet new people. People different than what they're used to.

It is your job to instill kindness as a virtue in them 😎

Let's do the job right💪🏾

Let's help our kids SAY NO TO BULLYING 🤲🏾

Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest ❤️

✍🏾If you're untop every matter of life, kindly Waka pass 🙏🏾🙏🏾

But if you need help on how to ease your kids into the new school year, oya enter this place😊

Hey mamma,

You already know 😉

It's a new class and it's a big deal. An even bigger deal if you're changing schools.

If this is not your 1st rodeo, you know preparing kids for the new school year involves both practical and emotional readiness.

And that's what we're here to talk about 😉

So, what to do?🤔🤔

📌Establish Routines Early:
- Sleep Schedule- Gradually adjust bedtime and wake-up times a couple of weeks before school starts to align with the school schedule. That is now!!! Kids resume in 3 weeks, for an easy transition start noww😌



📌Get Organized:
- School Supplies- Involve your kids in shopping for school supplies. This can help them get excited about the new school year.😃

- Labeling-Label their items, especially for younger children, to help them keep track of their belongings. Except of course, you have money to replace items every eke market day 😅

📌Visit the School:
- School Tour- Try to visit the school with your child to familiarize them with the environment. This is especially helpful if it’s a new school.

- Meet the Teacher- Attend any “meet the teacher” events to help your child feel more comfortable.

📌Talk About Expectations:
- Discuss Changes-Talk to your child about what to expect in the new grade or school, such as new subjects or teachers and classmates

- Set Goals- Help them set simple, achievable goals for the school year, such as improving in a subject or making new friends.

Dear Mammas,

Your kids deserve a smooth sailing term, therefore the onus rests on you to prepare them in every way you can😎😎

So what other tips would you add to this?

Let's have them in the comment section 😉


Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest ❤️

✍🏾 If you know you're so over this holiday that you can no longer hold back when you're frustrated, oya get in here👇🏾👇🏾

Dear Mamma,

I know it's often challenging for you to "bridle your tongue" because you naturally want to guide, and support your children.

You want them to know what to do at every moment and act accordingly and when they don't, emotions like concern, frustration, can make it difficult to hold back on some snide remarks.😤😤😤

I know you don't want to say those things but in the heat of the moment, you almost can't help it😔😔

Here are some tips to achieving self control👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾 because trust me those words have some negative impacts on your kids

📌 Pause before speaking. Take a moment to go over the impacts of words before speaking them. This would help prevent emotionally charged words that you'd end up regretting.

📌 Actively choose words that are constructive rather than critical.
Positive words can help create a healthy environment.

📌 Reconnect with your inner child.
Look at the situation with empathy. Remember how you'd felt when harsh words were used against you?

📌 Set boundaries
This cannot be overemphasized. Recognize situations where walking away would be beneficial for the both of you.

A wise woman once said, it is she who runs from a fight that lives to fight another 🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🫢

It's not an easy start, however, with practice, patience, and mindful communication, it is possible to develop this skill over time.😊😊

Hey Mamma,

How did you overcome heaping heavy words on your kids?🤔

Let's learn in the comment section 😉

Love, Laugh, Learn Lead and Live Life to the Fullest ❤️