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GOLDEN ADVICES FOR LIFE.

You will always have problems. Learn to enjoy life while you solve them.

People do not decide their futures, they decide their habits and their habits decide their futures.

In life you can only control two things: your effort and your attitude.

Don't ask how to start. Begin, then ask how to improve.

Happiness has less to do with pleasure and more to do with purpose.

Life is harder when you expect much from the world and little from yourself.

Life is easier when you expect much from yourself and little from the world. High Standards , Low Expectations

Half your problems are just your mind making smaller things seem bigger things.

Don't look for secrets when all you need are repetitions.

Don't let yourself be controlled by three things: people, money or past experiences.

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- *HOW TO ATTRACT PEOPLE TO YOU*

1. Be mysterious. It develops attraction towards you.

2. Be least available. Rare things are always attractive to people.

3. Be confident. It shows that you are capable of doing things in a better way.

4. Be well dressed. Your great dressing sense attracts the attention of others.

5. Smell good. Use strong perfume and deodorant to attract the attention of others.

6. Your body language should be open. It shows that you are frank and carefree.

7. Be least reactive to attract others. It will attract their attention towards you and increase your demand.

8. Don't sell yourself so easily to people. Let them make efforts to win you over because people don't appreciate things that they get easily.

9. Don't express yourself much on social media. It kills attraction.

10. Don't care what others think of you.

11. Don't be desperate when talking or messaging someone.

12. Don't be dependent. The more dependent you are, the less attention you get. Learn to say NO.

12. Be yourself. Don't change to win someone over. Change yourself to improve yourself.

13. Don't reveal everything about yourself. Revealing everything about yourself makes you the least attractive person.

14. Don't get affected if someone doesn't give you the importance you want or deserve. Always be the one to end the conversation.

15. Don't show too much interest in anyone.

16. Don't be too nice to people. People will take you for granted and you are destined to lose all the attractions. A strong sense of humor increases attractiveness as it is also one of the signs of an intelligent personality.

17. Prioritize your goal and no other person (except your family members: Husband, Wife and Children).

18. During the conversation, make eye contact with the other person and smile slightly.

19. Love yourself and never be afraid to stand up for your beliefs. Have strong opinions and be aware of trending topics and other social issues.

20. Be adventurous. Travel to amazing places and get clicks and amazing stories to post on social media. Be optimistic and take risks. Optimism gives positive vibes to people and hence they are attracted to you. By taking risks, you show that you are brave and can step out of your comfort zone if needed.

21. Be independent. Spend most of your time alone without worrying about what others think or say about you. Be a thinker and analyze things. Offer solutions to other people's problems without expecting anything in return.
Never compromise with your self-esteem. Always respect and love yourself, but remember to stay humble and polite.

22. Be ambitious. Work on your goal and focus on improving yourself.

-ctto

📌When you stop telling your friends every detail about your life, your enemies will be starved of information.
No gossip to go around.
No shaming you about your choices.
Not all people you think of as, or call your friends, are, in fact, your friends..
Some are pretending to be with you just to feed your enemies.
Be careful who you call your friend because one of the scariest enemies on earth is those people who pretend to be your friends.
Privacy is power. What people don’t know, they can’t ruin.
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🔥17 SAYINGS - 17 SECONDS TO SEE THROUGH PEOPLE

Those who seek to take advantage only come to us in times of need. Those who truly value us will not forget what we’ve said.

1 .If you want to see through someone’s thoughts, look into their eyes.

2. If you want to understand someone’s personality, pay attention to the friends around them.

3. To determine someone’s status, look at their rivals.

4. To assess a person’s determination, observe how they rise after failure.

5. To evaluate a man’s character, look at his shoes.

6. To judge a woman’s grace, observe the way she sits.

7. To know the closeness of two people, see how they react when hearing of the other’s misfortune.

8. A true friend will always understand us, even when we’re silent.

9. A good friend will never abandon us when we’re in trouble.

10. A well-raised person will be gentle with both the elderly and children.

11. A sincere person will not speak ill of others behind their backs.

12. A person capable of great things won’t be interested in small gains.

13. A compassionate person loves animals.

14. Those who seek to take advantage only approach us in times of need.

15. Those who genuinely value us won’t forget what we’ve said.

16. Someone who cares about us will remind us to stay warm when winter comes.

17. Affection and responsibility define relationships between people, not appearance or material things.

BY AGE 40 YOU SHOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS:

1. Someone makes 10x more than you do in a 9-5 job because they have more "leverage" with their work.

2. Distraction is the greatest killer of success. It stunts and destroys your brain.

3. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.

4. No one is coming to save your problems. Your life's 100% your responsibility.

5. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline.

6. Unless you went to college to learn a specific skill (ie. doctor, engineer, lawyer), you can make more money in the next 90 days just learning sales.

7. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.

8. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.

9. Smoking has 0 benefit in your life. This habit will only slow your thinking and lower your focus.

10. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression.

11. Don't tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.

12. Avoid alcohol at all cost. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.

13. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.

14. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

15. Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99.99% of mental problems.

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8 Habit Rich People Will Not Tell You.

1. Value Every Moment: Remember, a single minute lost to procrastination can erase the progress of a month's hard work and discipline. Stay focused and make every moment count.

2. Wealth's Silent Power: True wealth isn't about flaunting riches; it's about multiplying them. Rich individuals understand that real success comes from wisely investing their resources, making each dollar work for them.

3. The Dream of Passive Income: Imagine the ultimate flex: earning money while you sleep. It's the dream of financial independence that drives many to seek passive income streams, where your money does the heavy lifting.

4. Quiet Victories Speak Loudest: Winning isn't always about showing off. Sometimes, the most meaningful victories happen in private, away from the spotlight. Not everyone needs to witness your journey; focus on your own growth.

5. Choose Your Circle Wisely: Surround yourself with like-minded friends who inspire and push you to be your best. The company you keep can be the game changer in your pursuit of success.

6. Success Is a Quiet Consistency: The path to greatness is paved with daily actions, not grand gestures. Consistency, even in the smallest tasks, is what separates the truly successful from the rest.

7. Your Knowledge Is Your Greatest Asset: In today's world, your ability to learn and adapt is the ultimate superpower. Invest in knowledge and personal growth; it's a treasure that is appreciated with time.

8. Courage Lies in Facing Failure: Failure isn't defeat; it's a valuable lesson in disguise. Embrace the courage to fail because every setback brings you one step closer to success.

Stories of Hope

FACTS ABOUT THE WORKPLACE.

1. Your boss is not your friend. Regardless of how close you both are, learn to set PROFESSIONAL boundaries.

2. Walls have ears. Be careful who you confide in at work. A listening ear could also be a flippant mouth.

3. Your employer is now concerned about RESULTS. How you get the JOB done is up to you. No excuses.

4. There is always that one person/ group of persons feeding the boss with happenings in the office. Some employees brief go beyond the official ( except in work cultures where such act is expressly frowned upon). Be guided.

5. When you get withdrawn from PROJECTS or someone is asked to understudy you or you get demoted without cogent reason(s), that may be a cue you'd soon be shown the exit door.

6. As much as you can, keep your private life away from COLLEAGUES. You might be under INVESTIGATION for achieving some personal great feat without you even knowing.

7. Somebody your colleagues may not even like you, it could be the way you LOOK, DRESS, SPEAK, your capabilities, accomplishments at work, your aura or for some weird reasons and that is fine. Everybody cannot like you, so accept that.

8. Pay attention to body language, tone, pitch and pace of voice from your team members, colleagues or your boss. They may provide important cues to what isn't expressly said. Studies have shown that emotions,likes and dislikes are communicated via 38% para- verbal and 55% non verbal. Only 7% are communicated via verbal communication.

9. There will always be that " exceptional colleague" who gets the job done, gets the recognition and praises. Don't let that feeling of DISDAIN or inadequacy set in. See what that person is doing differently, how they do it and learn. You'll become a better person. Be open to LEARNING.

10. While the workplace should foster POSITIVE VALUABLE RELATIONSHIPS, your primary aim is to get the job done and go home. Don't forget that.

-ctto

"Live purposefully"21 Habits of the top 1% of Men:

1. They stay far away from broke, jobless and entitled women.

2. They always keep their word. They don't make promises anyhow.

3.They manage their time. Every fu**in' hour is accounted for:

High-value men don't waste their time on:

• social media

• video games

• p**n.

They use their time for more productive things.

4.They don't chase pleasure. Instead they find pleasure in facing discomfort, in making sacrifices for the greater good.

Here's how to become more disciplined:

• Set clear goals for yourself.

• Have a strong WHY.

• Avoid anything that doesn't align you with your goals.

• Do what you need to do especially when you don't feel like it.

5.They have an insatiable hunger for success. In truth, they never settle, they never settle for less. They want more and more and more.

6.They surround self with ambitious men. Because they know that the people around them determine how far they will go in life.

7.A high-value man never stops improving himself. He doesn't take time off.

8.They Keep their plans private.

They make moves in the shadows and end up shocking everyone with their achievements.

9.They don't fear failure because they know failure is a stepping stone to success.

10.They are always eager to learn whether it's from people or from reading books, always ready to add to the knowledge they already have.

11.They text women to set a date. High-value men don't try to get to know a woman via text. This is how they avoid being placed in the friend zone.

12.They don't sleep around with random women. They use their sexual energy for more productive things.

13.They take good care of their body.

14.They are nice guys with bad boy tendencies. High-value men have a combination of both nice guy and bad guy traits. This makes them immune to being used by people. And it also makes them extremely appealing to women.

15.They don't try to fit in. Instead they create their own world.

16.They don't seek validation or attention. All they want is respect.

17.A high-value man is unapologetic about who he is and about what he wants in life.

18.They never give up.

19.High-value men don't learn from their own mistakes alone. They also learn from the mistakes of others.

20.High-value men don't doubt themselves. They don't waste their time doubting whether they will succeed or not.

21.don't criticize anyone. This is show jealousy high value man is talk to plan.

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"Live purposefully"

Mature Men Never Do These 10 Things:

Mature men behave in specific ways that show their maturity. They are calm, respectful, and responsible. Here are ten things mature men never do:

1- Closed-minded: They keep an open mind and consider different viewpoints.

2- Criticizing others: They avoid judging others and understand everyone has their reasons.

3- Making excuses: They take responsibility for their actions without blaming others.

4- Wasting time: They value time and make the most of it.

5- Refusing to learn: They are always willing to learn and grow.

6- Blaming others: They accept their mistakes instead of shifting blame.

7- Disrespecting others: They treat everyone with kindness and respect.

8- Leaving when things get tough: They stay committed during challenges.

9- Being self-centered: They think of others and act selflessly.

10- Getting overly emotional: They know their limits and handle situations calmly.
Mature men are great partners, providing stability and happiness.

Mature men are good, godly and exemplary.

-ctto

A tree without fruit attracts no one; a leader without clarity attracts no great people.
-ctto

TEN STRONG QUOTES ABOUT DECISION-MAKING

1."Indecision is the thief of opportunity." - Jim Rohn

2."If you don’t make decisions, others will make them for you." - Harvey Mackay

3."Decisiveness is the one thing all successful people have in common. Failure comes from a lack of decisiveness." - Tony Robbins

4."Decisiveness is a characteristic of high-performing men and women. Almost any decision is better than no decision at all." - Brian Tracy

5."Once you make a decision, the universe conspires to make it happen." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

6."The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity." - Amelia Earhart

7."The secret of getting ahead is getting started. The secret of getting started is breaking your complex, overwhelming tasks into small, manageable tasks, and then starting on the first one." - Mark Twain

8."It is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped." - Tony Robbins

9."Make a decision and watch your life move forward." - Oprah Winfrey

10."The greatest mistake you can make in life is to continually fear you will make one." - Elbert Hubbard

Bonus 1
"Life is about making decisions, and you can't make decisions if you're afraid of making mistakes.”

Bonus 2
"When you cannot make up your mind which of two evenly balanced courses of action you should take, choose the bolder." - W.J. Slim

-ctto

Success demands these 6 things..

1. Hard Work

Don't believe in luck, believe in hard work.

Stop trying to rush the process or searching for a shortcut.

There is none.

2. Patience

If you are losing the patience, you are losing the battle.

First nothing happens, then it happens slowly and suddenly all at once.

Most people give up at stage one.

3. Sacrifice

If you don't sacrifice for what you want, then what you want becomes the sacrifice.

Everything has its price. The question is: Are you ready to pay it for the life you desire?

4. Consistency

Consistency is what transforms average into excellence.

Without consistency, you will never achieve greater success.

5. Discipline

Motivation gets you going, but discipline keeps you growing.

There will be days when you don't “feel” like doing it.

You have to push through those days regardless of how you feel.

6. Self Confidence

Confidence is, I'll be fine if they don't like me.
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“Never criticize anything or anyone unless you are prepared to offer something to improve that with which you find fault.”

—Napoleon Hill