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Octavia E Vance aka OEV, is a Certified Life Coach who leads high achieving women of faith from frustration 2 Liberation in her 12 week Mentorship Program.

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07/16/2021

Last night was the first time I’ve prayed since April 2nd, the day my Mother passed away.

I’ve been upset at The Most High for not answering my prayers. So…I went on a prayer strike…I guess. I decided not to talk to The Most High, read not one Bible verse and lift not one of my hands in praise.

See…my prayers get answered. They get way passed the ceiling. But you mean to tell me when I prayed for my Mom to be healed it was a no? It was “unanswerable”? It wasn’t “according to His will”? Miss me with the religious cliches and jargons. I believed for years in prayer and have seen my prayers come to past. I’ve seen it come to pass several times as it pertained to myself, others and my Mother and yet this time I felt I was let down. Disappointed. Betrayed even.

So “pray for what” was my attitude. It didn’t matter about the many prayers I’ve had answered in the past. What mattered was THIS prayer for my Mother was not answered according to what I prayed. I didn’t pray for healing to be death. I didn’t pray for healing to be a “greater yes”. I didn’t pray any of that. I prayed SPECIFICALLY for my Mom to be completely healed ‘on earth’ so she could see her grandchildren grow up and we could heal us and make our relationship better.

🗣 “WHY DIDN’T YOU ANSWER WHAT I PRAYED OH MIGHTY GOD? AREN’T YOU THE GREAT JEHOVAH RAPHAPA, THE LORD THAT HEALS”? Things I thought but never said.

But last night after listening to one of my mentors who’s also a very close friend, praise TMH after coming through brain surgery to remove what they thought was one tumor but found two, something happened inside of me. Her praise awakened something in me that had been dormant. Just as I missed communicating with her while she healed after surgery and just as I miss talking to my Mom, I begin to miss talking to my God. Oh how I missed telling him my deepest thoughts, feelings and secrets. Oh how I missed crying out to Him instead of just crying in my grief, sadness and anger. How I missed what we’ve had for years.

I sat at my desk in tears and mustered the only words I could which was a prayer of gratitude… “Thank you for the time you gave me with her”. It was all I could say. It was all I could whisper aloud with the song ‘Have My Heart’ playing through my air pods right at the part where they sang, “My heart is yours forever”.

It was my confirmation that whether I had been on prayer strike or not, grieving or not, hurting or not, mad or not or sad or not, that no matter what, my heart is His forever. He can take it when I’m mad at Him. He can take it when I ignore Him. He can take it when I’m frustrated with Him. He can take it when I’m in my feelings towards Him. He can take it when I’m being real and unapologetically in my pride towards Him because unlike most humans, He will remain loyal and faithful ALWAYS no 👏 matter 👏 what 👏 I 👏 do 👏 or 👏 how 👏 I 👏 feel! He got me 💯

I’m still His as it was declared long ago before I was ever formed in my beautiful Mother’s womb, He knew me…And He ain’t never giving me up no matter what.

Experiencing such a huge loss affects people differently. This is my journey, no one else’s and this has been apart of how this huge loss has been affecting me. So whether my prayers for my mother were answered or not, I don’t know. Neither am I asking anyone their opinion about that at this point. What I will say is prayer is in my DNA and I’m back to praying even if the prayer is simply “I’m hurting” or “Thank You”. ~ OEV ❤️🙌🏾

#NothingCanSeparateHimAndMe

Last night was the first time I’ve prayed since April 2nd, the day my Mother passed away.

I’ve been upset at The Most High for not answering my prayers. So…I went on a prayer strike…I guess. I decided not to talk to The Most High, read not one Bible verse and lift not one of my hands in praise.

See…my prayers get answered. They get way passed the ceiling. But you mean to tell me when I prayed for my Mom to be healed it was a no? It was “unanswerable”? It wasn’t “according to His will”? Miss me with the religious cliches and jargons. I believed for years in prayer and have seen my prayers come to past. I’ve seen it come to pass several times as it pertained to myself, others and my Mother and yet this time I felt I was let down. Disappointed. Betrayed even.

So “pray for what” was my attitude. It didn’t matter about the many prayers I’ve had answered in the past. What mattered was THIS prayer for my Mother was not answered according to what I prayed. I didn’t pray for healing to be death. I didn’t pray for healing to be a “greater yes”. I didn’t pray any of that. I prayed SPECIFICALLY for my Mom to be completely healed ‘on earth’ so she could see her grandchildren grow up and we could heal us and make our relationship better.

🗣 “WHY DIDN’T YOU ANSWER WHAT I PRAYED OH MIGHTY GOD? AREN’T YOU THE GREAT JEHOVAH RAPHAPA, THE LORD THAT HEALS”? Things I thought but never said.

But last night after listening to one of my mentors who’s also a very close friend, praise TMH after coming through brain surgery to remove what they thought was one tumor but found two, something happened inside of me. Her praise awakened something in me that had been dormant. Just as I missed communicating with her while she healed after surgery and just as I miss talking to my Mom, I begin to miss talking to my God. Oh how I missed telling him my deepest thoughts, feelings and secrets. Oh how I missed crying out to Him instead of just crying in my grief, sadness and anger. How I missed what we’ve had for years.

I sat at my desk in tears and mustered the only words I could which was a prayer of gratitude… “Thank you for the time you gave me with her”. It was all I could say. It was all I could whisper aloud with the song ‘Have My Heart’ playing through my air pods right at the part where they sang, “My heart is yours forever”.

It was my confirmation that whether I had been on prayer strike or not, grieving or not, hurting or not, mad or not or sad or not, that no matter what, my heart is His forever. He can take it when I’m mad at Him. He can take it when I ignore Him. He can take it when I’m frustrated with Him. He can take it when I’m in my feelings towards Him. He can take it when I’m being real and unapologetically in my pride towards Him because unlike most humans, He will remain loyal and faithful ALWAYS no 👏 matter 👏 what 👏 I 👏 do 👏 or 👏 how 👏 I 👏 feel! He got me 💯

I’m still His as it was declared long ago before I was ever formed in my beautiful Mother’s womb, He knew me…And He ain’t never giving me up no matter what.

Experiencing such a huge loss affects people differently. This is my journey, no one else’s and this has been apart of how this huge loss has been affecting me. So whether my prayers for my mother were answered or not, I don’t know. Neither am I asking anyone their opinion about that at this point. What I will say is prayer is in my DNA and I’m back to praying even if the prayer is simply “I’m hurting” or “Thank You”. ~ OEV ❤️🙌🏾

#NothingCanSeparateHimAndMe

07/15/2021

There’s just no love like the love of your First Born! 🥰

I fail and learn more with her than all of my children but I’m grateful she loves me in spite of. And to that I say…

Happy 15 My Beautiful First Born (July 13th)! In my eyes, I mess up way too much with you, but in your eyes, I’m the Mother you chose to birth you and love you for life.

And yes, you were Nana’s favorite because you were the grandchild she prayed for and demanded I give her for years 😂😘🥺❤️ She was crazy about you baby. And so am I!

Love you forever! ~ Mommy ❤️ #teenagers #genz

There’s just no love like the love of your First Born! 🥰

I fail and learn more with her than all of my children but I’m grateful she loves me in spite of. And to that I say…

Happy 15 My Beautiful First Born (July 13th)! In my eyes, I mess up way too much with you, but in your eyes, I’m the Mother you chose to birth you and love you for life.

And yes, you were Nana’s favorite because you were the grandchild she prayed for and demanded I give her for years 😂😘🥺❤️ She was crazy about you baby. And so am I!

Love you forever! ~ Mommy ❤️ #teenagers #genz

07/09/2021

She’s been through hell and I don’t know when she’ll be back.

But I do know in spite of her grief, her pain, her confusion, her anger and her loneliness because of her loss…She will be back! And you beta act like you know She will.

Happy Birthday to Me on the first birthday without the Woman who brought me into this world. I’ve cried. I’ve yelled. I’ve cussed. But I’ve also laughed! It’s the memories that keep me! Again, She’ll be back and Happy Birthday to Me, OEV! ❤️😔🙌🏾🥰

Save this post. It’s more to come boo. #illbeback

She’s been through hell and I don’t know when she’ll be back.

But I do know in spite of her grief, her pain, her confusion, her anger and her loneliness because of her loss…She will be back! And you beta act like you know She will.

Happy Birthday to Me on the first birthday without the Woman who brought me into this world. I’ve cried. I’ve yelled. I’ve cussed. But I’ve also laughed! It’s the memories that keep me! Again, She’ll be back and Happy Birthday to Me, OEV! ❤️😔🙌🏾🥰

Save this post. It’s more to come boo. #illbeback

05/06/2021

They say this is the “year of firsts” when it comes to grieving. And I’m feeling every bit of this today.

Today makes 17 years with my Handsome Amazing Man... yet unfortunately it marks the first anniversary My Mom’s not here to acknowledge it. I’m hurting today and I don’t like that I’m happy and sad. This is unfair af... to celebrate and grieve at the same time. How I wish it were different..

But know that I am still deeply in love with this Man...the Father of all my children and I’m also grateful that I was able to give my Mom all 5 of her grandchildren. I don’t know what else to say as I’m struggling to write this through tears. I miss you Mama... but I jus want you to know... Me and your “Son in Love” made it another year 😔😍.

I love you so much Antonio. And I miss you so damn much Mommy. ~ ❤️

They say this is the “year of firsts” when it comes to grieving. And I’m feeling every bit of this today.

Today makes 17 years with my Handsome Amazing Man... yet unfortunately it marks the first anniversary My Mom’s not here to acknowledge it. I’m hurting today and I don’t like that I’m happy and sad. This is unfair af... to celebrate and grieve at the same time. How I wish it were different..

But know that I am still deeply in love with this Man...the Father of all my children and I’m also grateful that I was able to give my Mom all 5 of her grandchildren. I don’t know what else to say as I’m struggling to write this through tears. I miss you Mama... but I jus want you to know... Me and your “Son in Love” made it another year 😔😍.

I love you so much Antonio. And I miss you so damn much Mommy. ~ ❤️

04/23/2021

Them: “So where’s your husband in all of this”?

Me: Holding down his Wife...as we approach 17 years of being Happily Married. 🤨

I mean... what y’all thought? Yes I’m hurting... I’m hurting bad but, he’s being the Amazing Man he’s always been because that’s just him 🤷🏾‍♀️ .

Come hell or high water or even death of a parent, we said “For Life”. And that includes the grief that can come in this life. ~ OEV❤️

Them: “So where’s your husband in all of this”?

Me: Holding down his Wife...as we approach 17 years of being Happily Married. 🤨

I mean... what y’all thought? Yes I’m hurting... I’m hurting bad but, he’s being the Amazing Man he’s always been because that’s just him 🤷🏾‍♀️ .

Come hell or high water or even death of a parent, we said “For Life”. And that includes the grief that can come in this life. ~ OEV❤️

04/18/2021

The Face of Grief? #grief #griefjourney

One thing about grief is that I don’t think we can ever plan for how it hits. We still have things to do, goals to accomplish, people to love and lives to transform. What I’m learning is “how” to do that while grieving, as I’m seeing that life doesn’t stop for the living. So tho I am grieving and it seems to come in waves, I’m learning how to embrace each moment while dealing with the reality in that... She’s gone...But I am still here.

The Face of Grief? #grief #griefjourney

One thing about grief is that I don’t think we can ever plan for how it hits. We still have things to do, goals to accomplish, people to love and lives to transform. What I’m learning is “how” to do that while grieving, as I’m seeing that life doesn’t stop for the living. So tho I am grieving and it seems to come in waves, I’m learning how to embrace each moment while dealing with the reality in that... She’s gone...But I am still here.

04/13/2021

“The Call of Grief”. ~ OEV

I’m angry. I will not disguise this for anyone’s feelings or approvals.

I’m weak. I will not pretend I am strong for the sake of religion or Bible verses thrown at me.

I’m sad. I will not pretend I’m happy or that joy comes in the morning. To me, there have been too many joyless mornings since...

I’m guilt ridden. I didn’t come right away when she asked. She asked and I said I’ll be there soon, just knowing she would be fine like always. But I didn’t fly out until she was deemed terminal. How could I not go when she asked? She never asked before. Nothing anyone can say to make me feel any less guilt about this. Time will have to do its job here.

I’m incredulous. No matter how many times this plays over in my mind, it’s still surreal. No call backs. No text backs. No afternoon tea of what’s going on in the family. I’m in the dark now.

I’m grieving. Whether publicly or privately, I am grieving and no one gets to tell me HOW, when or where to grieve. Just know I’ve never grieved in this way before. Ever. Because this one hits different. This one hurts different. This one feels different. This one is different. And I don’t foresee this changing anytime soon.

I’m still the talkative extrovert I’ve always been but these past two weeks, I’ve done things I don’t normally do...gave my number to ppl and not answer their calls or texts, screamed, cussed out the air, answered a call in my inbox (why do ppl call you like this anyway?), “unbit” my tongue and practiced no restraint instead, talked for hours to cousins I hadn’t talked to in years, ubered alone and stayed out all day alone, vented to ppl I don’t even talk to and hugged ppl I’ll probably never hug again.

And after doing all those things and feeling all those feelings and crying all those tears, the results are still the same.

She’s gone. And it hurts... it hurts so damn bad. I’m answering the call of grief even tho it’s not the call I ever wanted to answer.

I’m Sorry Mommy💔 I Miss You💜 I Love You❤️

Your Baby Girl still...

“The Call of Grief”. ~ OEV

I’m angry. I will not disguise this for anyone’s feelings or approvals.

I’m weak. I will not pretend I am strong for the sake of religion or Bible verses thrown at me.

I’m sad. I will not pretend I’m happy or that joy comes in the morning. To me, there have been too many joyless mornings since...

I’m guilt ridden. I didn’t come right away when she asked. She asked and I said I’ll be there soon, just knowing she would be fine like always. But I didn’t fly out until she was deemed terminal. How could I not go when she asked? She never asked before. Nothing anyone can say to make me feel any less guilt about this. Time will have to do its job here.

I’m incredulous. No matter how many times this plays over in my mind, it’s still surreal. No call backs. No text backs. No afternoon tea of what’s going on in the family. I’m in the dark now.

I’m grieving. Whether publicly or privately, I am grieving and no one gets to tell me HOW, when or where to grieve. Just know I’ve never grieved in this way before. Ever. Because this one hits different. This one hurts different. This one feels different. This one is different. And I don’t foresee this changing anytime soon.

I’m still the talkative extrovert I’ve always been but these past two weeks, I’ve done things I don’t normally do...gave my number to ppl and not answer their calls or texts, screamed, cussed out the air, answered a call in my inbox (why do ppl call you like this anyway?), “unbit” my tongue and practiced no restraint instead, talked for hours to cousins I hadn’t talked to in years, ubered alone and stayed out all day alone, vented to ppl I don’t even talk to and hugged ppl I’ll probably never hug again.

And after doing all those things and feeling all those feelings and crying all those tears, the results are still the same.

She’s gone. And it hurts... it hurts so damn bad. I’m answering the call of grief even tho it’s not the call I ever wanted to answer.

I’m Sorry Mommy💔 I Miss You💜 I Love You❤️

Your Baby Girl still...

03/15/2021

While so many people was telling me I was out here having too many children (as if I was having children by myself 😒), they didn't realize I was changing the world with my womb. (Don’t miss what I just said).

You see, in this one pic, there's a coder in the mist who's learning to code and create his first app. There's a business owner in there who's releasing her first global lemonade stand this year. There's a designer in the bunch who can create the dopest apparel with only scissors and her hands without thread or a sewing machine. There's a "delicacy creator" who makes all her treats from scratch all from watching YouTube videos. There's an artist among them who is illustrating her very first children book this year. And then there's a Baby Man who at 6 years old runs them all showing he was born a leader.

ALL of them have bank accounts, insurance, trust funds and one has an American Express card in her name. Give me a few more weeks, and they'll have LLC's, businesses and real estate attached to their names as well.

You wanna change the world? Yes be the change you wanna see but then you better connect with an amazing mate and create the next change you know you and your community needs. Because teaching adults to unlearn bad habits and relearn good habits is a lot harder than teaching children not only to be amazing adults but setting them up to be amazing adults as well.

We're doing our part. Now what are YOU doing? If you looking for an amazing mentor to help you in creating the 'Ships n Sex Life of YOUR dreams, DM ME: MENTORSHIP! I'm not an anomaly boo. But I am a liberator of sexual frustration and struggle love. I got the blueprint. Hmu boo! 😉

While so many people was telling me I was out here having too many children (as if I was having children by myself 😒), they didn't realize I was changing the world with my womb. (Don’t miss what I just said).

You see, in this one pic, there's a coder in the mist who's learning to code and create his first app. There's a business owner in there who's releasing her first global lemonade stand this year. There's a designer in the bunch who can create the dopest apparel with only scissors and her hands without thread or a sewing machine. There's a "delicacy creator" who makes all her treats from scratch all from watching YouTube videos. There's an artist among them who is illustrating her very first children book this year. And then there's a Baby Man who at 6 years old runs them all showing he was born a leader.

ALL of them have bank accounts, insurance, trust funds and one has an American Express card in her name. Give me a few more weeks, and they'll have LLC's, businesses and real estate attached to their names as well.

You wanna change the world? Yes be the change you wanna see but then you better connect with an amazing mate and create the next change you know you and your community needs. Because teaching adults to unlearn bad habits and relearn good habits is a lot harder than teaching children not only to be amazing adults but setting them up to be amazing adults as well.

We're doing our part. Now what are YOU doing? If you looking for an amazing mentor to help you in creating the 'Ships n Sex Life of YOUR dreams, DM ME: MENTORSHIP! I'm not an anomaly boo. But I am a liberator of sexual frustration and struggle love. I got the blueprint. Hmu boo! 😉

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OEV: Certified Life & Sex Coach

Octavia E Vance, better known as OEV, is a certified life coach, sex coach, speaker and author of several books. She has devoted her life and experiences to helping intelligent women of faith who are tired of struggling for love and wading through sexual frustration— leading them to a more fulfilled life, both in their relationships and sex.

With over forty thousand followers on various social media sites, Octavia has impacted many lives positively with her unique methods which has produced phenomenal results even beyond what her clients have expected and prayed for. A few sessions with her are enough to produce positive change in women’s ‘Ships n Sex. (plug for her podcast ;)

As a mentor and motivational speaker, OEV has translated her own life experiences of overcoming struggle love and sexual frustration into lessons which has helped single ladies embrace their sexuality while still living for God and has shown married ladies how to use their God given voice and assigned power to lead them from struggle love to triumphant love in their marriages. With a no-nonsense and highly humorous attitude, she has mastered her art and knows how to deliver to her clients, even though she can be a little bit tough; the results are guaranteed, and there have been countless testimonies attesting to that.

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