
Grief is so tricky that way
Grief support and education for all types of loss, with a specialization in perinatal bereavement. Host of the Birth Ease Loss Support Podcast. Rev. Michelle A.
Teacher with The Institute for The Study of Birth, Breath, and Death. Birth Ease Loss Support provides education and support in the spaces where birth, loss, grief, and healing meet. Smith is a Certified Grief Counseling Specialist and the founder and host of Birth Ease Baby Loss Support podcast. She is a Stillbirthday Birth & Bereavement Doula/Chaplain and professionally trained Midwife of Thanat
Operating as usual
Grief is so tricky that way
🦋 Please light a candle at 7 pm on October 15th and leave it burning for at least an hour to help create a continuous wave of light around the world to honor and remember babies gone from us too soon. 1 in 4 women has experienced pregnancy loss. If it hasn't touched you personally, it has someone close to you. Thank you for showing your love and support. It means so much to us. 💜
Things I hear often…
“My mom started hospice and she died.”
“When you start hospice they give you morphine and you die.”
“Hospice is a death sentence.”
I am a hospice nurse, and I can only speak for myself, and how I provide care. My goal is to be there for both the patient and family, to truly listen to them about what they need and what matters most to them, and let them know that they have been heard, and to remove symptoms that are causing suffering of any kind.
If someone has been given a diagnosis with six months or less to live, they are already dying. Starting hospice will not speed up the process. Starting hospice can sometimes give you a little more time, simply by reducing pain and suffering. It doesn’t always happen, but sometimes it does.
I always want people to start hospice sooner because I truly believe their end of life journey will be gentler, and those who are preparing to say goodbye will have the tools, resources, and support that they need to be there for the person they love, knowing that they are not doing this alone.
My goal with my blogs, classes, books, and social media posts is to help educate about death and dying in such a way that it removes fear and uncertainty, and offers tools and resources to anyone who is dying or providing care for someone who is dying. I want to help improve the way people are cared for when they die, and when they grieve.
❤️
xo
Gabby
www.thehospiceheart.net
Here is a blog I wrote about hospice and what it offers:
https://www.thehospiceheart.net/post/hospice-is-not-a-diagnosis-it-is-a-plan-of-care-for-the-diagnosis
Here is a link to my hospice master class, which Is packed full of very valuable information:
https://www.thehospiceheart.net/masterclass
Here is a link to my book “End of Life Tips”:
https://www.amazon.com/Life-Tips-Gabrielle-Elise-Jimenez/dp/B0C9G8PZZ5
🦋 "Published by Firefly Books Ltd., written by Munsch and illustrated by Sheila McGraw, “Love You Forever” is based on a four-line poem Munsch used to sing in his head for his two stillborn babies.
“I’ll love you forever,
I’ll like you for always,
As long as I’m living
my baby you’ll be.”
It has now been published in nine languages."
Robert Munsch’s classic children’s book ‘Love You Forever’ turns 38. The heartbreaking truth behind the timeless picture book If you ask Craig Baird, he’ll tell you Robert Munsch’s “Love You Forever” is often passed down through generations for good reason.
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Precious baby born after loss, please know how much you are loved.
"Dear Baby, right now, you are perfect. You are safe and growing. Your sibling sent you to us, not to replace, but in addition to. Grief and joy can coexist. I have great love for you, no matter what happens. And just like your sibling, you are worth it all in the end." ~Dana Romano ( on Instagram)
Quote adapted from Dana Romano's "Dear Baby Born After Loss, Please Know" ➡️ https://pregnancyafterlosssupport.org/baby-after-loss-please-know/
Still Loved ★★★★ The Guardian "Remarkable Candour" ★★★★★ Vulture Hound "Vital viewing" Still…
🦋This is always such a beautiful and memorable event. It is good to have a safe space to honor our babies with others.
Please join us October 15th at 7pm as we remember these babies
All. Of. This.
Never the same
Birth Ease Baby Loss Support provides birth & bereavement doula services, grief support, and bereavement meditations for families experiencing the loss of a child through miscarriage, stillbirth, or infant loss. Our focus is providing support in the spaces where birth, loss, grief and healing meet. Rev. Michelle A. Smith is the founder of Birth Ease Baby Loss Support. She is a Midwife of Thanatology, Stillbirthday Birth & Bereavement Chaplain and Doula, trained in prenatal loss with Resolve Through Sharing, and is a member of PLIDA- Pregnancy Loss & Infant Death Alliance and The Institute for The Study of Birth, Breath, & Death. Joining her are Ron Stearns, grief coach and retired psychologist with over 45 years experience.