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John Pavlovitz: An Open Letter to White Evangelicals | The Milwaukee Independent 11/10/2020

John Pavlovitz: An Open Letter to White Evangelicals | The Milwaukee Independent

This is two years old. From Christian pastor John Pavlovitz:

“Dear White Evangelicals,
I need to tell you something: People have had it with you.
They’re done.
They want nothing to do with you any longer, and here’s why:
They see your hypocrisy, your inconsistency, your incredibly selective mercy, and your thinly veiled supremacy.
For eight years they watched you relentlessly demonize a black President; a man faithfully married for 26 years; a doting father and husband without a hint of moral scandal or the slightest whiff of infidelity.
They watched you deny his personal faith convictions, argue his birthplace, and assail his character—all without cause or evidence. They saw you brandish Scriptures to malign him and use the laziest of racial stereotypes in criticizing him.
And through it all, White Evangelicals—you never once suggested that God placed him where he was,
you never publicly offered prayers for him and his family,
you never welcomed him to your Christian Universities,
you never gave him the benefit of the doubt in any instance,
you never spoke of offering him forgiveness or mercy,
your evangelists never publicly thanked God for his leadership,
your pastors never took to the pulpit to offer solidarity with him,
you never made any effort to affirm his humanity or show the love of Jesus to him in any quantifiable measure.
You violently opposed him at every single turn—without offering a single ounce of the grace you claim as the heart of your faith tradition. You jettisoned Jesus as you dispensed damnation on him.
And yet you give carte blanche to a white Republican man so riddled with depravity, so littered with extramarital affairs, so unapologetically vile, with such a vast resume of moral filth—that the mind boggles.
And the change in you is unmistakable. It has been an astonishing conversion to behold: a being born again.
With him, you suddenly find religion.
With him, you’re now willing to offer full absolution.
With him, all is forgiven without repentance or admission.
With him you’re suddenly able to see some invisible, deeply buried heart.
With him, sin has become unimportant, compassion no longer a requirement.
With him, you see only Providence.
And White Evangelicals, all those people who have had it with you—they see it all clearly.
They recognize the toxic source of your inconsistency.
They see that pigmentation and party are your sole deities.
They see that you aren’t interested in perpetuating the love of God or emulating the heart of Jesus.
They see that you aren’t burdened to love the least, or to be agents of compassion, or to care for your Muslim, gay, African, female, or poor neighbors as yourself.
They see that all you’re really interested in doing, is making a God in your own ivory image and demanding that the world bow down to it.
They recognize this all about white, Republican Jesus—not dark-skinned Jesus of Nazareth.
And I know you don’t realize it, but you’re digging your own grave in these days; the grave of your very faith tradition.
Your willingness to align yourself with cruelty is a costly marriage. Yes, you’ve gained a Supreme Court seat, a few months with the Presidency as a mouthpiece, and the cheap high of temporary power—but you’ve lost a whole lot more.
You’ve lost an audience with millions of wise, decent, good-hearted, faithful people with eyes to see this ugliness.
You’ve lost any moral high ground or spiritual authority with a generation.
You’ve lost any semblance of Christlikeness.
You’ve lost the plot.
And most of all you’ve lost your soul.
I know it’s likely you’ll dismiss these words. The fact that you’ve even made your bed with such malevolence, shows how far gone you are and how insulated you are from the reality in front of you.
But I had to at least try to reach you. It’s what Jesus would do.”

John Pavlovitz

John Pavlovitz: An Open Letter to White Evangelicals | The Milwaukee Independent John Pavlovitz: An Open Letter to White Evangelicals Posted by John Pavlovitz | Jan 27, 2018 | Columns, John Pavlovitz Dear White Evangelicals, I need to tell you something: People have had it with you. They’re done. They want nothing to do with you any longer, and here’s why: They see your hypo...

Dave Chappelle Shares His Thoughts with Dave Letterman About George Floyd | Netflix Is A Joke 10/27/2020

Dave Chappelle Shares His Thoughts with Dave Letterman About George Floyd | Netflix Is A Joke

How about some refreshing (*actual*) dialogue from a pair of particularly brilliant minds? Much needed, thought-provoking, and inspiring across a variety of levels.

Dave Chappelle Shares His Thoughts with Dave Letterman About George Floyd | Netflix Is A Joke In this clip of My Next Guest Needs No Introduction with David Letterman, Dave Chappelle discusses the death of George Floyd and the effects on our country. ...


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“Tips on Delivering Feedback:

Use “I” statements and monitor your own emotional involvement.

Ask for reactions, responses, agreements, and disagreements. Listen and ask for details.

Test for understanding to see whether your message was received accurately.

Jointly create or recommend a plan for improvement.

Ask what you can do to help.

Thank the person, acknowledge their willingness to listen and reinforce their feedback by summarizing any agreements you reached about what will be done differently, by whom, and by when.”

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Establish an honest, trusting relationship by requesting feedback yourself and modeling how to receive it.

Introduce the topic and set the model for listening with a reassuring tone of voice and body signals.

Ask for permission to deliver it. F permission is denied, ask for feedback regarding the reasons, elicit the other person’s expectations, and model openness in listening.

Share positives and use “Yes and” instead of “Yes, but” statements.

Maintain eye contact if culturally appropriate to do so.

Be direct, honest, empathic, and to the point.”

Cloke & Goldsmith, The Art of Waking People Up, p. 75


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