Charlotte Vetter Yoga

I’ve been talking a lot about exiting the patriarchy. I’m having a great time discovering what it means and how it works more and more with each chapter. I want to share with you a really important discovery about how to actually do it.

There is no “taking down the system” without first taking it down within yourself. The first step to leaving this system is to heal your internalized patriarchy by de-programming from it’s thought-ware and creating new pathways for your inner resources to serve you.

It would have been almost impossible to have escaped some from of internalization if you grew up in modern culture. The subliminal messages and “direct horns in your face” messages are everywhere. And it’s been passed down for generations.

Thus, it is no easy task to “get it out” of your system. But it is very possible, and the only way to begin this journey is to well… begin. Start where you are, and start now!

Tomorrow, a group of women are coming together to do the work to exit the patriarchy.

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I am calling in any and all last minute “Yes!” sisters that feel this deep in their bones and are ready for this work.

Send me a DM “I’m ready to exit the patriarchy!” (Or your spicy version of this) if you want to join us. We take off at 9am PST tomorrow and we would love to welcome you.

Some of my greatest heartache, pain, and regret has come from betraying my myself (my adult self that’s here to be a vessel for my soul and her work on this earth).

Looking back, there were times that I chose something because it’s what I thought I should do (parent ego state) or because it would validate my victim story (child ego state) or because It would keep me safe and out of intimacy (gremlin ego state).

All of these decisions I made from any of these ego states were NOT coming from my true authentic adult ego state (the channel for my soul). I feel sad I did not have consistent access to this until much after I officially became an “adult.”

These distinctions have been discovered by Possibilitators around the world and are very useful to DISTINGUISH IN YOURSELF because otherwise your inner world, made up of all sorts of “parts” or “voices” feels like being in a lost maze.

When you start to discovery our inner world and begin to distinguish the voices in your head, you welcome the first step of doing this work= awareness.

Committing to discovering + navigating your inner world is a powerful place to take responsibly for your life, drop mainstream thought-ware, and honor your soul.

There is an opportunity for you to discover + become more intimate with your inner world. It’s starts on Monday. 🕯️🌹✨🥹🕊️

You can join by registering at the link in my bio.

ANNOUNCEMENT:
I CREATED A NEW ACCOUNT FOR WOMEN ONLY
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I AM OFFERING 4 FREE COACHING SESSION THIS WEEK - BOOK ASAP TO RESERVE YOUR SPOT (FOR MEN OR WOMEN)

ABOUT ARCHETYPALWOMAN:
This is a place where I will share specific stories that I could not get myself to share publicly on this page for various reasons such as:
- My termination story (the healing/the lessons ect) + my perspective on it now which is not what you might imagine.
- My Pretty and perfect story
- Other more intimate stories about my personal life + relationships + journeys that I feel inspired to share in a space of only women.
- New developments in my work (and opportunities for you to join me)

This page will also be a place for me to share teachings, wisdom, experience, experiments, practices, and resources on the topics of:
- S*xuality
- Sensuality
- Feminine embodiment
- S*x
- Pleasure
- Relationships with men
- Daily spiritual practice for women
- Emotional processing
- Healing relationships with family
- Beauty
- Archetypal lineage
& more

FOR NOW - the page will be private so please “request to follow”

ABOUT FREE POSSIBILITY COACHING:

This is for you if you want to: remove an inner obstacle, find a new possibility in any situation in your life, and/or want a listening space.

This is open to men or women.

See you there.

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LIFE IS PROCESS 🪶🕊️🕯️🌸🌹

I was reminded yesterday about the power of the process and how there is NO destination, there is no end. And If we anchor ourselves in “when we get there” we will miss the present moment of our lives.

So the work is to learn to LOVE and APPRECIATE the process. Celebrate the process, it’s all we have.

Another part of the process is learning to DO IT ALL “WRONG”, to mess up, slip up, and continue anyways.

You can either be on the doing it right / looking good team OR the messing up / learning / and creating something that brings you forward team.

Which do you choose for 2023?!

HAPPY NEW YEAR! ✨✨✨✨

De-programing from Modern Culture’s Patriarchal Conditioning
And Reclaiming your inner-world:

One of the biggest qualities that modern culture programming takes away from humans is their inner-masculine. This is your inner-POWER. Inner power is created when you can take responsibility, communicate effectively, navigate triggers, create boundaries, understand your power as a human, and have distinctions about the different parts of you showing up in your life (to name a few).

We were reminded over and over again that the answer (your power) is outside. I notice it as a subtle message that something or someone “out there” will solve my problems and give me my power.

From here, we built very little inner-masculine structure because we were outsourcing it.

Your inner-masculine is the structures inside of you that allow for your inner feminine (consciousness and expression and joy of life) to flow. If you don’t know how to say no, create a boundary, get out of relationships that sucks, be your own authority, use your feelings to align yourself with your path, take responsibility for your traumas, unhealed emotions or problems then you will perhaps always be waiting for the outside masculine to save you.

What has been discovered by myself and other Edge-workers is that this part of you functions best with some training, practice, and regular refreshing!

There is an opportunity to do just that ^ train this part of you and strengthen your inner-masculine matrix. From here, the rest of your life and your natural feminine energy gets to flow even more beautifully and freely.
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Empowered Woman 🕯️🪶🕊️⚔️
3 month program!
Registration closes Jan 1
Link in bio🤍🤍🤍

THE COST OF TRYING TO BE PRETTY AND PERFECT

Everything you do has a cost and a gain.

In my experience, trying to be pretty and perfect has very big cost with very little benefit. In exchange for being pretty and perfect you give up:

- Your time
- Your energy to cultivate other aspects of yourself
- Your money
- Authentic relationships
- Your soul

Per usual, this might sound extreme. But I have a fear that being “pretty and perfect” is really this costly.

I can tell you how we got here as a “collective woman.” Modern culture, which is just “normal life” for most of us that grew up in the western world gives you the impression through tv, advertisements, etc. that we are only desirable when we are pretty and perfect. We are bombarded with messages and images of airbrushed woman with perfect hair and b***s and lips. And at some point, a man will point out how we look - either ugly or pretty. And since the messaging tells us we need a man to be complete, happy, and loved we make a decision that the most important thing (or one of the most) is to be pretty & perfect. So we spend hours a day thinking about our body, our belly fat, our lips, our chin, our wrinkles - hyper fixating on what is not perfect.

This is “their way” of keeping women in their system, spending insane amounts of money on trying to look perfect, with clothes, shoes, make up and whatever. All the while these products are destroying the environment and we slowly lose who we really are, because all that we know really about about ourselves is how to look pretty and perfect.

Hard truth coming in: A man does not want to be with a pretty and perfect woman. He wants to be with a real and natural woman.

I want to share with you my story about how I work with the part of me that wants to be pretty and perfect + how I have and continue to go through the fire to remember ME and reclaim my life.

More coming soon… 🕊️🤗🤠

An Empowered Woman is a woman who has her power and knows how to use it.

A Woman who has her power is sourcing her power from within.

This is the natural state of a Woman.

Many of us have adopted the conditioning, beliefs and thought-ware from modern culture and our past that is dis-empowering.. such as:

- I have no control over the outcome of my life and that change must happen on the outside. Only when I get this job, or this partner, or the house will I be happy/fulfilled
- I have to be more focused on other people, such as my partner or my friend group
- Trying to fit in instead of being myself
- Comparing to others
- People pleasing
- Impressing others
- Proving myself
- Competing with others
- Thinking I don’t have the authority to make decisions for my life and that others probably know better than me.. “But what do you think?”
- Living in someone else’s definition of me
- Waiting for someone that hurt me to apologize
- Obsessive with how I look

The opposite of ‘empowered’ is ‘codependent’ (with anything) and looks and feels a lot like ⬆️.

Empowered women are sovereign & connected.

It might seem like my message has changed over the last years, but when I look at it from here it has always boiled down to this: how can we live sovereign, empowered, and in our full potentials.

And after witnessing my work (with a unique combination of possibility management, kundalini, ta**ra, and astrology) support many women in reclaiming their power, it dawned on me this year- I’ve discovered something that works.

While living in Portugal the last 3 months I had a lot of time to myself to think, and experiment with how to create this program. The vision revealed itself clearly when I began to write it down, in 1 hour I wrote the whole thing down. It’s just in me now.

I just knew, this is it. This is the foundation, tools, practices, and context shift you need to live as an empowered woman. I thought to myself, what a fu***ng relief... after all this trial and error - I finally can show you a way (that is simple, effective, and so so beautiful).

And now, the scary (and also very exciting) part is actually doing it. ⤵️ continued

As the holidays approach, the topic of family becomes very loud, almost blaring. Every conversation seems to be about the things that come up when we go back to that from which we came.

So, here is a space to connect, share, experiment, and rewrite some of the stories you have about family and your relationship to it.

We will be sharing the tools that have supported us (Jeff & Charlotte) in creating new connections with family, and what has not worked.

By the end, you will walk away with new possibilities that will become the foundation for your next family gathering experiment 🧪

This event will take place on Zoom at 2PM EST on Tuesday 12/13/22

Link in bio to register!

We are at the beginning of a turning point in her-story, as we are waking up to the destruction modern culture has created in the world. Gaia is in desperate need of woman to step up and become stewards of the new earth paradigm and next culture beyond modern culture. This will require journeying into our underworlds, surrendering our old ways of relating & birthing our communion.

🕊️🌹🌻🧙🏼🏹🔥🫀👣❤️‍🔥

Life update:

SURRENDERING TO THE FLOW. 🌊

RELEASING THE TIMELINE I CREATED IN MY MIND. 🪂 (BYE!)

(THERE ARE MANY MAPS.
THERE IS NO KNOWING.
THERE IS NO RIGHT OR WRONG.
THERE ARE JUST CHOICES THAT GIVE YOU DIFFERENT RESULTS.
THERE IS ONLY LIVING.)

FINDING THE BALANCE BETWEEN GO & BE. 🪄

USING MY FEELINGS TO RELATE AS A SOVEREIGN BEING. 🏹

DISCOVERING MORE OF MY HIDDEN SPOTS (SHADOWS, OLD BELIEFS, SABOTAGE/MANIPULATE PATTERNS) & DOING THE PROCESSES TO TRANSFORM THEM. 🧙🏼

CLAIMING MY PURPOSE TO SERVE HEALING, TRANSFORMATION, INTEGRITY, POSSIBILITY & LOVE. 🌹

LAUGHING AT THE INSANITY & MYSTERY OF IT ALL 😂

What’s your life update?!!!!! Share and tag me if you feel!! 🌻🌻🌻🌻

LOVE & SHADOWS,
Charlotte 🕊️

WHAT GAMEWORLD ARE YOU PLAYING IN? 👾👻👀🧞‍♀️

“A gameworld is an interaction-space in which co-creators agree that a particular context applies. An interaction-space is not restricted to a physical-space.” - possibility management spark ⚡️

I started my spiritual journey by joining the Gameworld of Mindfulness. I became sensitive to my surroundings, reacted appropriately, tried to return myself to neutral, and noticed what’s going on inside me without attaching to it. Useful at times! 

For some time I was exploring & giving most of my attention to the Gameworld of Ecstasy & Pleasure. Learning how to be the source of my turn on and shakti. Claiming all my desires, and enjoying my erotic embodiment. This continues to be a YES gameworld for exploration for me.

There are several other Gameworlds that I have explored. Some I return to and still participate in, and some I’ve moved on from. 

The Gameworld that I am most deeply connected to is the one that has provided me a broader context, and that also does not exclude the right for other Gameworlds to exist. It allows space for so much expansion in so many directions. It is the Gameworld of 🧙🏼Possibility 🧙🏼.

Making a conscious choice to play in this world has impacted me in such a powerful way to take more responsibility in my life and create what I want.

It’s the Gameworlds… of Gameworlds..

… I’m curious.. What gameworlds you are playing in.. and what results do you get from playing in them?

EMPOWERED WOMAN: Meet the world of Possibility ✨🌹✨

What blocks you from new possibilities in your life?
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If you’re anything like me, you are seeking expansion, new experiences, and fulfillment. Creating new possibilities for yourself is how you walk this path.

The world of possibility sounds a bit new-age, easy-to-talk about, however intangible, but in my discovery I have found that this gameworld is REAL, and the process to experience it is practical.
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In any given moment in your life as you respond and interact with the world and yourself, you have options and possibilities to choose this

or that
or that..
respond this way or that way..
create this or that..
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Have you ever been in a situation where you wish you could see another possibility besides the only one (maybe two) that you see? Have you ever been in a situation and had a feeling there must be another way to deal with this, but you don't know what it is or how to do it?

When I say “new possibilities” I am referring to the potential response and thus results you can create in any moment.
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How do you go from seeing only one possibility in a moment/with a situation you are in, to perhaps… 10?
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In this webinar, we will have an exploration about HOW to create new possibilities in your life and then I will introduce to you a new thoughtmap that will immediately give you new possibilities in your life.
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The DEETS:
MONDAY | DECEMBER 5, 2022
9 - 11 AM PST (2 HOURS)
INTERACTIVE LIVE ZOOM SESSION

Register here:
charlottevetter.com/webinar

I’m so excited to share this with you. ❤️‍🔥