R.Puppi

you have what you need to succeed irrespective of your background as a person from a poor background. To succeed in life it had little to do with your family background, although it can help to catapult you to your dreams but mind you many people come from richer backgrounds and are unsuccessful. To become successful in life, you have to work harder to get yourself to the level of success you desire, since success is relative and everyone is considered successful in different lights.

You have all it takes to be successful because you have equal time with the successful people. All of us have 24 hours to work for, all of us have the same human nature which seeks happiness as individuals. You have the power as a person to influence your outcomes because life is about what you sow is what you reap when you give more towards your development and success, you make better decisions and these bring you closer to success. Many of the super-rich people today come from poor backgrounds and they did not allow the poverty to become an obstacle to them rather they transformed these towards their own good. It is not about what happens but what you make out of what happens.

You don't have the power to choose your parents will be and how economically vibrant they will be before your birth, but you have the power to choose how you will live your life and economically vibrant your kids will be. When you make it your duty to change what is happening around you, your instincts will catapult you to success. Rich thoughts and hard work empower one to success. Life is how you make of it and what priorities you set for yourself and how you network with other people and how comfortable you will choose to be uncomfortable. How you will like to move out of your comfort zone and follow the path that less tread

Everyone says, “A child needs their dad.” But no, it’s not that simple. A child needs a safe dad. A providing dad. A consistent dad. A dad who understands that his family is more important than immature nonsense.

It is a mother’s responsibility to protect her child from harm and toxic influences, even if that includes family members or parents. And shame on anyone who puts a child’s well being aside for their own selfish “feel good” moments.

This generation never satisfied with wat they have in front of them …. There is always going to be a bigger 🍑a bigger 🍆 a guy that make more money 💰 a girl that cook better🍛🍲 … we pretty much just be trading in a problem for a different problem … the grass ain’t really greener on the other side …

relationships are so fu***ng scary to me man, no matter how good things are going or how in love you are, your significant other could always just lose feelings for you and be gone just like that. & none of that is in any of your control.

A woman can only truly love one man at a time. If you're not the one, you're not. There’s no middle ground. This is why you often see two women fighting over one man they both love. 💔
A woman who loves you can even sense and recognize every scent on you, including your clothes. 👃💕
Women often have a higher s*x drive than men. It's a common misconception that men desire s*x more. In reality, women often have stronger s*xual desires but tend to wait for men to make the first move. This is because women fear rejection, embarrassment, or being insulted, so they prefer to let men take the lead. 😳💬
Women don't keep secrets from the ones they truly love. No matter what a woman says, when she's with someone she loves and trusts someone who knows her deeply she won't hide anything from him. 🗣️❤️
Shyness and tears can be deceptive indicators of a good woman, as women can easily fake these emotions. They are fully capable of putting on an act. 😢🎭When you cheat on her, she won't necessarily hate you. Instead, she’ll direct her anger toward the other woman involved. Ladies, I'm sorry for revealing this secret

Every girl on my timeline is so pretty 🦋 I bettt they won't say thank you 😫💕.

A friend ask me
How do I stop chasing and trying after girls?

It’s all about confidence, brother.

Confidence comes from feeling good about yourself which comes from knowing you’ve put in the time and done the work.

Here’s the checklist:

Workout, look like a man and not a dork chained to his Ps4 all day

shaved, showered and clean

nice clothes

white teeth and fresh breath

good haircut

good manners

look em’ in the eye

smile a lot

be a good listener

show interest in them

be a leader

be flirty but not desperate

have a job and a clean car

live healthy. as that creates energy and vitality

know God, as a spiritual connection in a relationship makes for a much better connection

The person you’re looking for will appear when you’re ready and not one second sooner, so get to work on this list…you got this

When I ask someone out, it means i want quality time with her and her only. I don’t need her to bring her boyfriend, her guy friend, her close friend, her cousin, her dad, her horse, her grandpa around.

If I wanted to socialise, I’ll stick with my gym bros

I never believed in the concept of randomly approaching women for the sole purpose of trying to get a date for as long as I could remember time. I’d always felt that the women who expect this from men suffer from female entitlement. It’s simply a way for such women to have the best of both worlds where they get to both pick and choose, and where they can make the guy look like a creeper in order to promote their own victimhood if they don’t like the guy who’s approaching them. I’ve lost count of the amount of times I’d heard many women state that they wish they could simply go out and about their usual business without constantly being hit on.

Furthermore, when male s*xual entitlement is also factored in it simply does not make sense to me why many men and women still promote this model that men should randomly approach women they either don’t know, or women who do not make an effort to let you know they like you in some manner. It kind of almost seems to me that many women, and men who tend to bully other men, want men to be in a default position that could potentially make them look bad no matter what they do. I consider such women to have the entitlement complex, and such men to be masochists where the harder they have to work for female approval, the happier they are. We hear plenty about male s*xual entitlement, but we almost never hear about female entitlement.

My other reason is that randomly approaching women simply has no vibe to me. I tend to like women who like me and at least demonstrate it in some way; these are usually women that I know beforehand in some capacity. I also had many women randomly approach me or at least tell a friend they liked me. I simply do not see the point of doing something I’m not into, nor do I see the point of perpetuating a cultural expectation that would always have the guy placed into the default potential negative position depending on the individual woman in question.

What was the reason you stopped chasing love?

As a 44 year old heteros*xual man who knows that women are wonderful and worth loving, I stopped chasing love because I wanted to be happy with myself and my life first. I didn't want the meaning of my life, my self worth be determined by a woman who doesn't think I earned enough for a living or my job status was to their pleasing or not. I did not want to better myself ,or become someone I was not for the sake of winning a woman’s approval but for my own benefit. Not to sound shallow, but I met some women who had very high standards yet were no prizes themselves, physically and personality wise. When I saw many couples unhappy together or yearn for freedom, I see the advantages, the freedom and inner peace of being single.

However one of the main reasons I stopped chasing love, was that I was chasing it in order to forget a painful past from a previous love. Never chase love if you are on the rebound, feel insecure about being single, self esteem issues about a past relationship and believe that love is the only true meaning of happiness in life. Be mindful, self aware, live the present moment ,even though it is okay to acknowledge pain and anxiety, take action instead of wallowing in self pity.

First be happy with yourself and life. If you are not, don't go chasing love thinking that's the solution. Instead better yourself, exercise, do outdoor activities, practice a hobby as a form of meditation, read, try new challenges, get out of your comfort zone, have goals in life,daily, weekly,monthly, short term and long term

When doing this, you won't need to chase love,it will find

Is it okay for a lady to live with a guy she is not yet married to?