📸 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗹𝗲𝗻𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝘃𝗶𝗲𝘄 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗮𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗲𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆.
* 𝗜'𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗛𝗮𝗹𝗹𝗺𝗮𝗿𝗸 𝗺𝗼𝘃𝗶𝗲 𝗹𝗲𝗻𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮 𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀 𝗶𝘀 𝗴𝗼𝗼𝗱 𝗲𝗻𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵.
And when it's not good enough, you simply ignore it so you don't tarnish the movie of your romance.
👎 Needless to say it didn’t work.
* 𝗜'𝘃𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘁𝗶𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗲𝗻𝘀 𝘁𝗼𝗼 𝘄𝗵𝗶𝗰𝗵 𝗹𝗲𝗱 𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗺𝗲𝗻 𝗜 𝘄𝗮𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗶𝗻 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗳𝗲𝗹𝘁 𝘀𝗮𝗳𝗲.
* 𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗜'𝘃𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗟 𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗜 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗣𝗿𝗶𝘇𝗲.
👉 You know when you feel you look good enough and you know you're a great catch and worthy of being pursued.
💎 Shall I tell you a secret?
𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲'𝘀 𝗻𝗼 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗿𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝘃𝗶𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗟 𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴.
💭 Imagine this: you're having the guy do all the work for you and you allow him to step up to his true potential.
💭 Imagine how it is when you can read his mind and know which is a trait of a man who will align with you for life and not just for a short-lived relationship.
💡 Isn't that what you're looking for?
💛 The long-term relationship with a man who makes you feel heard, appreciated, safe, and loved.
💭 Imagine how your life would be when you're in a REAL relationship with a REAL man who gets you; a man who’s confident and open to growing with you.
💭 Imagine that and do yourself a favor.
👉 Decide that from now on you will stay true to yourself and only date REAL men, without seeking the thrill of short-lived romances.
✌️ Promise yourself that you won’t ever settle for anything less than that.
Eleni Kouloumou - Women's Love & Dating Coach
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Operating as usual
📸 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗹𝗲𝗻𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝘃𝗶𝗲𝘄 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗮𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗲𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆.
❌ It's not the App.
It’s not Bumble, It's not Match and It's definitely not Plenty of Fish.
👉 Stop trying to find the ideal Online Dating App.
It’s not the App’s fault that you haven't met your high value man.
𝗜𝘁’𝘀 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗱𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗘𝗻𝗲𝗿𝗴𝘆 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆.
. Do you know those people who enter a store and they are offered a present?
. Or those people who always find the best space in the parking lot and who just turn stones into gold?
It’s not because they’re any more special than you.
💛 It’s because they know they’re special and they treat themselves in that way.
I was discussing online Apps yesterday with a beautiful lady who was so disappointed by the amount of scammers and low value guys she attracts.
But when we looked into her life: She’s not giving herself the attention she wants.
⬇️ She’s not taking care of herself in the same way that she wants her dates to do.
⬇️ And she’s not making herself a priority in her life, always rushing after her kids and others.
Well, here's your answer.
𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝘄𝗮𝘆 𝗽𝗼𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗹𝗲, 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗱𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂?
🌱 It's when we create the space we need for yourselves that we attract the guys who’ll respect us.
🌱 It's when we speak to ourselves kindly that we attract guys who value us.
🌱 It's when we make ourselves a priority, that our men prioritize us.
𝗦𝗼 𝗻𝗲𝘅𝘁 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝗮 𝗴𝘂𝘆 𝗴𝗵𝗼𝘀𝘁𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂, 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝗼𝗳 𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝘁 𝗮𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁; 𝗚𝗼 𝗼𝗻 𝗮 𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳.
🌹 Have a pedicure or dive into those acts of self-love that will make you fall in love with you.
🎯 𝗜𝗻𝘁𝘂𝗶𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗗𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗼𝗽𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗱𝗼𝗼𝗿𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗮 𝗱𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗳𝘂𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲.
• When a client stopped dating the highly intellectual guys she thought she liked; she welcomed into her life the man who was just as smart, but also ready to love her.
• When another client recognized what it truly meant to be prioritized by the right type of man, she found love and the commitment she was seeking for for years &
• I finally found love when I realised how worthy I was and dated the man who appreciated me.
✨ These are 3 journeys from 3 different women, but they all have what I call the X-Factor of healthy love.
💡 There are many theories out there as to what that X-Factor could be, but the one common denominator I have experienced with all my clients who attracted true love is this:
❗️𝗔𝗡 𝗜𝗡𝗦𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗔𝗕𝗟𝗘 𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗥𝗦𝗧 𝗧𝗢 𝗚𝗥𝗢𝗪❗️
If what you desire is to GROW and not just to find ANY man who loves you, you are A Goddess.
💎 You don’t settle for anyone and You use your intuition to guide you in your dating.
💎 You want the man who will align with you.
💎 You want to understand your own feelings and limiting beliefs first.
💎 You want to laugh and express yourself freely in life.
💎 You want the man who will support you in having the life you envisioned, not the one who will put out your light.
👑 And as one of my clients said the other day when her man didn’t text her and for a glimpse of a moment, she feared he forgot her:
'I’m a good catch and it will be his loss not to be with me.'
🔥🔥🔥 When you wear your Self-Worth, your life is not about finding Him, but about finding the Goddess in you.
🔑 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗮 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗮𝗹, 𝗮 𝗰𝗹𝗶𝗲𝗻𝘁, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗮 𝘀𝗲𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗸𝗲𝘆𝘀 𝘁𝗮𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗺𝗲.
💨 A client who started practicing my Feminine Energy ritual confided that something strange happened.
🪄 She thought of a friend and instantly that friend called her. Imagine that.
You may have had that experience too. It’s not uncommon.
🚪 The next morning as I was about to walk out the door, it was my turn to experience the power of our mind.
💭 I had this feeling that my husband did not have his keys with him and I had to wait for him.
How odd? If you know him, he’s the kind who plans ahead.
📝 He’d be the one to prepare sandwiches on long journeys just in case the kids get hungry.
🧲Staying behind wasn’t an idea I liked, but I felt inclined to do that.
💥Strangely enough, that was when he called telling me what I’d anticipated. He forgot his keys.
💪🏻 You see our intuition is powerful.
🔥 We can sense the energy of others and if we use that sixth sense in our dating, we can even manifest our dream man.
I know this may sound too “woo woo”. I get that, as I used to think that myself.
👉 How would you feel though if this “woo woo” stuff helped you attract the relationship you want?
Exactly a week ago, a client proved that this stuff works.
💍 In a matter of two months since we started working together, she went from single to engaged due to being married next Spring.
🕰️ Two Months!! That’s right and this isn’t a whirlwind romance ready to collapse.
💞 She knew her man for a year now, but she didn’t realize he was her soulmate.
🦋 Not Until her energy shifted and her intuition kicked in changing the world around her.
💡 The power of our intuition is accessible by anyone of us through these steps.
· Break out of past self-defeating patterns
· Put yourself back in control embracing your self-worth
· Gain clarity of the type of man and relationship you desire &
· Adopt new empowering ways of navigating your dating.
🙌 If you’d like to learn more about how to connect with your intuitive power to manifest a healthy relationship, DM me for a free chat.
💥 Your Words Are EVERYTHING.
You can’t just blurt them out. It’s a make-it-or-break-it matter.
💔 I remember my grandma’s sister telling me how her dad slapped her because she used a Greek word for his head that was used to describe a donkey’s head.
That was Cyprus in the 1930s for you.
🪜 She honestly didn’t mean it. She was only telling him to mind his head and Oh boy, did that affect her?
💎 The bottom line is that your words are crucial even now in your interactions with men.
Now I'm not speaking about chats with men who are violent.
🎶 The truth is that Men in general, have a different language than women.
🎯 For men to understand what we're communicating, we need to speak their language. That's how we'll go from dating into a healthy relationship.
· If you justify yourself in your messages when you ask for something, guess what he’ll do?
👉 He'll sense your weakness and that's a turn-off.
· If you go back and forth trying to figure out what to say to him, guess what?
👉 You'll miss the opportunity to play with the words that he's just used and inspire him to ask you out.
· If you keep being serious, trying to somehow come up with something that’ll be interesting enough to charm him, guess what?
👉 You' hide that spontaneous side of yours and he won't see you.
𝗗𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗵𝗶𝗺 𝘁𝗼 𝗦𝗘𝗘 𝘆𝗼𝘂? I mean REALLY see you, your soul, and feel intrigued to get to know you?
🔥 There's only one way to do that and that’s to Show up being you!
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⚡️ 𝗛𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗸 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗙𝗲𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗘𝗻𝗲𝗿𝗴𝘆?
I know, Big statement to make when Feminine Energy is supposed to increase a woman’s attractiveness.
👉 It still does, don’t get me wrong.
👉🏻 But every so often, I see many of us women believing that Feminine Energy is only about accepting what we're offered and never reacting.
🌪 The result is that we stress out when we can’t behave in this way all the time.
• “I’m not empathetic enough” a client mentioned. “I’m too direct sometimes.”
• “I behaved low value,” another client said. “I confronted him on his behavior.”
• “I know I shouldn’t reach out, but I couldn’t help it and I texted him,” a friend mentioned after she didn’t speak to her man for days.
🙌 Feminine Energy aside, we’re all beautiful women, unique with our own personalities.
💎 These personalities are why we’re so special and why our men adore us.
💥 If Feminine Energy was to replace our personalities forever, would you want that?
👉🏻 Would you want your guy to know you for being this perfect figure that openly accepts his kind offerings 24/7?
🔥 Ladies, please cut yourself some slack.
Now I’m not saying you shouldn’t embrace your Feminine energy or that it’s not uplevelling you and making your man feel safe to connect with you emotionally.
🦋 What I’m saying is that sometimes, instead of being in your feminine energy, you can show those sparks of your personality that make you yourself and which is the reason he ought to love you by the way.
✌️”Where are you going?” asked my man poking his head out of the window.
👌 None of your business” I smiled and winked at him and he laughed. No way, was I going to tell him about my exciting plans…
🐚 Imagine going on: “So sweet of you to ask hon, I appreciate you. I’ll be back soon.”
🤸🏻 Now there's nothing wrong with that except that it’s not me, not in my cheeky moments!
💘 If Feminine energy were to make a man connect with you emotionally, then your personality’s the one thing that would make him adore you.
I accepted the worst and it came back to haunt me . . . UNTIL I TOOK THE REINS IN MY OWN HANDS.
✖ I remember how he said “You are a good girl” and I cringed. I didn’t want to be the girl who said ‘Yes’ to everything anymore.
🤦🏻♀️ Even when I found out he was a player and I complained, I still continued seeing him.
You see I was stuck in the cycle of helplessness; Where you feel you have to accept the man you’re attracted to EVEN when he doesn’t align with your own values and priorities.
😶 I became the voiceless girl of my childhood who conformed to the wishes of others.
I had lost my fighter spirit because I had learnt from a young age to hide myself for the sake of peace and to avoid punishment.
🐣 It wasn’t until I was walking in town one day after Easter that I felt the sharp pain of loneliness in my heart. I thought that nobody cared for me.
Do you know that feeling that you don’t matter? That feeling that gets you to reevaluate your actions and get up again with a new plan in mind?
💡 It was then that it hit me: It’s not that nobody cared for me; It’s that I didn’t care about me and the ONLY ONE responsible for my joy was me.
🌱 I made a plan to reinvent myself that very same day and I left him.
🌱 I learned the skill of attraction by believing I was entitled to love and that saved me.
🌱 Since then, I never accepted less than my values and I cruised through the waves of intimacy.
• It is when we hit rock bottom that we ought to rise.
• It is when we realize what boundaries mean that we honor them
• And it is when we are selective in our choices that we find true love. 😍
💞 He’s different than the men you’ve dated before and he truly likes you.
⚡️ But just as you start to think you’ve met the love of your life, things change.
• He’s not reaching out to you anymore.
• And on top of that, you feel as if the relationship has started making you depressed.
✖ There is a thing in life called Impatience that destroys the dating process.
⛪️ One of my clients expressed it brilliantly when she recognized that she wanted to skip all the dating herself and simply meet him at the altar to get married.
💍 There is no guarantee that dating will lead you to marriage or exclusivity.
🔥 The only guarantee we have in life is our own power to create an exciting life in the present moment.
You may think this is sad. You may even think this is disempowering.
💘 But let me tell you; my clients who embraced their own ability to make themselves happy, attracted into their life the man who proposed to them within months.
🌹 So when you date, have fun and let the man who is worth it win your heart.
✂️ The man you used to obsess with doesn’t have to be the one for you.
💪 But You do have to be Ruthless with your Boundaries and Unapologetically You to make it.
I keep hearing:
“I don’t want to sabotage this.”
“I need to change and become more feminine.”
“How can I reply to his message?”
And my reply is to you is this:
• What if the answer you are looking for is right in front of your eyes?
• What if the reason you cannot answer those questions lies in the fact that you have given your power away?
👉 Do you know when you first start a new job? And you assume that you don’t know anything? So you are waiting to be taught how to follow processes set by others and gauging to see what you can get away with.
🆕 That’s the beginner’s stage where you give your power away to others to guide you on what to do.
🏋️♀️ The challenge in the dating process is that there's no one who can guide you better than yourself so when you end up feeling cautious (especially after a few bad past relationships or a long time away from the dating world), you FREEZE.
😖 Your mind goes into Fear Mode and you feel all muddled and confused and then a list of questions arises that keeps you in a loop.
💪 The only way to tackle that brain freeze is to Get your power back.
🔥 I took the best decisions in the dating world when I let go of the beginner’s mindset and I connected with my wisdom.
💘 That’s when I broke it off with my emotionally unavailable Ex and I connected with my quality man who embraced me for who I was. I had clarity.
👑 So if you want to master dating, learn to trust your power because THAT will guarantee you the type of love that only a queen is worthy of. ❤️ ❤️
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