10/03/2021
If you give your kid a ball, they will then want to go play with it.
Then after a while, You’ll buy them the best football you can find, it might be pink, orange or blue, and then they will probably want a wee set of goals in the garden, and then a pair of keeper gloves and then they’ll probably want some boots off Santa when Christmas next comes round...
Then, then will probably spend hours begging you to go out into the yard to play with them, even though you may want to sit on the couch and watch tv.
They will insist. And their insistence will win.
Next, they will want their new found hero’s jersey, they will also then need shorts and socks and shin pads too...
And then their own TEAM to play with...
..it’s then life as you know it will end.
There will be no more lazy weekends watching tv.
You will see more sunrises than you ever thought possible.
Every spare minute of your time will be spent hauling their stinky sports bag to training sessions and games on the weekend, and if you’re (un)lucky, they may even have their own Pre-Match playlist to listen to in the car to help “get them up for THE GAME”.
Your house floors will have those little black bits everywhere, even after you hoover or mop.
Your car will be dirty, all the time...
But, don’t blame the kid, after all, it was YOU who gave them the ball in the first place.
Your weekends will be spent freezing or burning to death on a fold-up chair watching proudly from the sidelines.
But for them, every weekends will be spent gaining confidence and friends, and learning new skills and having fun and getting dirty.
So dirty in fact that you will have to learn how to do laundry in a whole new way, like maybe at a carwash using the pressure washer on the way home...
Don’t ever let it get you down though, because you will be there the day they their team wins, the day their team tastes defeat, and also to see them score their first goal, or save their first penalty.
They will make you SO proud, and that might make you feel strange, you might not know how to react, but trust me, celebrate the little things, and celebrate the big things... your kid loves seeing you happy.
They love knowing you love watching them in action.
Then, right before your very eyes, your little kid will be transformed into a teenager then a young adult.
But a young adult with integrity and respect...
..and all because you give your kid a ball.
But, remember you give them more than just a ball.
You give them a sport, a new list of skills to perfect, a hope, you allowed them to dream of achieving greatness, you helped them make new friends, a new wider family, a place to learn about the life, room to grow as a person, you helped give them a club where they can push their limits, giving them that ball allows them to develop bravery and courage, and a sporting LIFE will always be a HEALTHY LIFE.
Oh and enough fun memories to last a lifetime...
ALL of these things, simply because you gave them a ball.
Then one day, many years from now… they will be in their room and they will think back to their childhood and growing up with a ball at their feet and smile.
Then some time later again, one random day, your kid will give their own kid a ball, and the cycle begins all over again.
PS. It’s even more fun second time round as a grandparent watching your grandkids have fun!!! ⚽️ 🖤
“KU: where ‘fun’ meets ‘ball’...” 👌🏽⚽️🖤