07/12/2022
The days are short, prices are rising, wherever we look the world is demising.
In December we have hope, when it can be difficult to cope.
In December we have trees adorned in decoration, yet put on a smile of adoration.
In December we hope for a better year ahead and let aspirational thoughts fill our head
Let’s do what we can to be the best we can be, kind to all, how good would that be?
05/11/2022
Human Flowerpotting for 24hrs - what’s not to like? 🌻
28/10/2022
We can’t erase trauma, however, we can reduce the impact it has on us through coaching. Taking control rather than it controlling you provides immediate lightening of that burden.
Here’s a waterfall, unrelated but what a lovely picture!
28/10/2022
We can’t erase trauma, however, we can reduce the impact it has on us through coaching. Taking control rather than it controlling you provides immediate lightening of that burden.
Here’s a waterfall, unrelated but what a lovely picture!
28/06/2022
Show you love by listening not just hearing.
01/06/2022
This is truly amazing - what a mind blowing figure - thank you to all involved for making this an incredible success.
In such difficult times for people it just goes to show what can be achieved.
Pleased to say that an amazing figure of £32,000 has been raised for the Forgotten Veterans UK charity by the Portsmouth Remembers group. A final thanks to all those that walked the walk, the organisers, the business sponsors, staff at the charity and of course the magnificent community of Portsmouth. The bottom line is to increase awareness for the charity and enable the funds to help the lives of armed forces veterans who find themselves in vulnerable situations…. Of this we should be proud.
26/05/2022
A lot of the issues in life would not exist if people talked to each other rather than talking about each other.
Are you having problem confirming conversations or problem solving conversations?
09/05/2022
Cliff Jerred on ACCPH
Just a little marketing addition having joined the Accredited counsellors, coaches, Psychotherapists and Hypnotherapists register.
https://www.accph.org.uk/england/southsea/therapists-and-coaches/cliff-jerred
Cliff Jerred on ACCPH
Learn about Cliff Jerred, Therapists And Coaches in Southsea, England United Kingdom. Find Cliff Jerred reviews and more on ACCPH.
26/04/2022
This morning whilst driving on a beautiful country lane on the way to a meeting I saw a child cycling furiously, blazer flapping in the breeze - I thought, I bet he hates cycling to school but one day he might return to that lane to reminisce about his “good old days” cycling to school along that beautiful lane. Enjoy the moment, be present and celebrate the mundane as well as the big events. What will you centre on today?
16/04/2022
Why eggs?
The egg, an ancient symbol of new life, has been associated with pagan festivals celebrating spring. From a Christian perspective, Easter eggs are said to represent Jesus' emergence from the tomb and resurrection.
Whatever your stance or belief, grasp this time of new life to start living and stop procrastinating! Do it, do it now. If not now, when? If not you, who? You’re the CEO of your life. 😀🐣
03/04/2022
This edited photo was a gift from a client while I was typing some notes. Just a simple kind action shared is literally worth 1000 words. What will you do today to brighten someone else’s day?
29/03/2022
I’m quietly enjoying seeing the sun rise before the day starts to unfold. What are the highlights of the day you're looking forward to?
24/03/2022
Extract from a client note received today…. “…lots to work on in life but I'm in the frame of mind at the moment where I'm putting myself ahead of others just for a change.
Amazing to meet you "mind guru"... I'll certainly be back…… “
17/03/2022
Great conversations create greater opportunities. A delight to have had an engaging and possibility inducing meeting.
08/03/2022
When someone specifically says “thank you, You have a real gift of perception, I can’t believe how much we’ve achieved in 2 days” such a humbling experience to receive this feedback, everyone deserves to be listened to. ♥️ #lightbulbmoment
26/02/2022
Hello, it’s me, Cliff. Sometimes just a cheery “hello” in your own style can make someone smile. Never underestimate the impact you have on others. I was minded of this when some of my “Cliffisms” were brought to my attention this week. What I see as a cheery “hello” brings a smile to others, that is joyous to know. What will you do today to make someone smile?
17/02/2022
Engage with yourself and others in problem-solving conversations not in problem-confirming ones. Our self talk and talk with others ensures whether you choose whether you can or you can’t do anything. Whichever you believe, you are right.
14/02/2022
On this Valentine’s Day, self love is not selfish. Learning to love yourself provides the opportunity to love others. On this Valentine’s Day, remind yourself to love yourself and celebrate your uniqueness.
09/02/2022
Competition with others?
Do you only see the good and positive aspects in others but only focus on your perceived negatives in yourself?
Ask Yourself -
Am I comparing like for like?
What are the good things about me?
Focus on a more balanced and helpful way of looking at yourself and celebrate your gorgeousness.
We’re all our own worst critics! Ease up on yourself.
08/02/2022
How’s yours? Am I only noticing the bad stuff?
Am I filtering out the positives?
Am I wearing those "gloomy specs'?
What would be more realistic?
07/02/2022
Paranoia is very real to some of my clients, taking time to identify what is Mind Reading and what is reality can be very powerful.
Assuming we know what others are thinking (usually about us)then asking yourself, Am I assuming I know what others are
thinking?
What, if any is the evidence?
Are those my own thoughts, not theirs? Is there another, different way of looking
at it? What am I basing that thought on? Paranoia is absolutely real and can be absolutely terrifying, however, adopting some simple but effective strategies, through coaching, can really lighten the load.
04/02/2022
Qualitymind now takes appointments on their Page.
Qualitymind now takes appointments on their Page.
04/02/2022
Qualitymind now takes appointments on their Page.
Qualitymind now takes appointments on their Page.
04/02/2022
Robert Brault quote
“Often, what seems like an impossible climb is just a staircase without the steps drawn in”.
28/01/2022
I’ve just received this written note from a brilliant client who has worked so hard to implement behavioural change strategies (anonymised for privacy).
“I was introduced and started my Therapy with Cliff, Life coach.
I have had chronic anxiety and depression for 57 years of my life.
I found that my anxiety was exassabated by my time in military service.
The moment I started my therapy with Cliff Life coach, I realised that this therapy was so much different from any previous therapy that I had received in the past. Cliff saw me as a person and not just another client. He really took a interest in me.
Things in my life started to change just after a couple of therapy sessions…….”
22/01/2022
So delighted to share this latest review - “Thank you so much for our chat recently. I hadn’t realised how much stress I was carrying. The meeting with my client not only went well but didn’t even cover the stuff I was worried. Afterwards I had the space to reflect more on some of the stuff you’d said and it really landed with me. I’d spent a few months last year also worrying about my relationship with this client and I realised how much unnecessary anxiety had been impacting my life and mental health. Your chat has given me a new way of looking at things which will allow me to close down similar fears when they no doubt arise again in the future. I wanted to say a proper thank you because it feels like a transformational change. “
20/01/2022
Such a simple but powerful message. 💚
15/01/2022
This is what it’s all about. Client feedback testimonials make my heart sing but knowing people are growing, developing and are energised with renewed focus is such a buzz.
“I have been working with Quality Mind since October 2021
It has taught me how to re-align my sights and given me methods of how to compartmentalise my thoughts and actions. It’s has given me a whole new language to learn with regards to how I approach conversations and people. Mostly it has given me a platform to springboard and achieve exactly what I want from life and relationships.
I can honestly say working with Quality Mind in such a short space of time has opened my mind to who I am what I can do and what I can achieve from my life.
I cannot thank Cliff enough for what we have achieved already and I look forward to the future knowing I have the tools now to help me move forward with my life.
JP
15/01/22”
09/01/2022
I rather liked this, create your own memories and happiness will become a natural byproduct.
07/01/2022
Some people make things happen
Some people watch things happen
Some people wonder what happened, which one are you?
Call me today to start taking control.
07711 342599
02/01/2022
Make 2022 the best year yet, for you. Not anyone else, do it for you. Make good choices. Think consequences and live your future in the present.
31/12/2021
Writing yourself a letter can be a very powerful tool. Overcoming fear, emptying your head of the washing machine syndrome and allowing you to feel lighter is a simple yet effective strategy
14/12/2021
Whatever your traditions are at this time of year, if they are important to you, continue with them. Routine when Covid is desperately trying to derail us is even more important! going
09/12/2021
Fabulous - at simplywholesomesouthsea with - great food, great staff.