Manifesting with Barbara

Stress is the biggest killer of relationships

DO YOU KNOW why life cannot give you more?

Because when it does, you feel GUILTY!

Guilty because you don't feel worthy... you don't feel perfect enough to receive... you don't feel deserving.

And guess what?

When you say to the Universe: "Nooo, don't give me that, I don't deserve it"...

The Universe responds : "Ok". And doesn't give it to you.

Because it won't violate your desires. It will always comply.

If you want to stop being your worst enemy....

You need to break free from stupid perfectionism...

And learn to believe in yourself NO MATTER WHAT!

Do you want to do it together?

Then join my upcoming Masterclass!

It's free - my gift to you!

Link in the comments 🥰

ARE YOU A PERFECTIONIST?

One of the most common mistakes I see in the women that come to me is the belief that they need to be perfect in order to be loveable.

I get it.

Often, in childhood, when we didn't get the love we needed - and our parents were constantly criticizing us - we internalized the belief that the reason they didn't love us was because we were not perfect.

As a result, we grew up with the illusion that if we would achieve perfection, then they would love us.

Of course, none of that is true.

They couldn't love us simply because they couldn't give us what they didn't have.

The problem is that many of us are still carrying around those beliefs...

Thinking that if we could only be better... more beautiful.. nicer... etc, then love wouldn't be a problem.

And when we are aware of our imperfections, we believe we are not worthy of love.

When in fact... our imperfections are exactly what makes us loveable!

They are the things that make us human... vulnerable... uniquely charming.

But if you don't believe that.. and you're hiding them, feeling ashamed of them...

Then you are putting up a barrier to love...

And repelling the very thing you want most.

It is when you learn to LOVE your imperfections, that LOVE cannot stay away from you!

💋 Like my client N who realized that her "weaknesses" were exactly what her future husband found most charming about her!

💋 Or like my client M who thought that she was too princess-like... but her fiancé finds she is exclusive and high-class.

💋 Or like myself. I used to think that i was too chaotic.
But guess what? I manifested a man who finds that totally adorable.

When you love yourself despite it all, that's when YOU become magnetic to TRUE LOVE!

So...

Stay in your pyjamas on this lazy Sunday, grab your favorite drink 🫖☕, and come join us on this cozy morning where we will fall in love with ourselves like never before...

And in the process, give permission to others to do the same!
See you soon!!!

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YES, you can have love at ANY AGE.

At any age there are people looking for someone exactly like you. With your age, physical appearance, principles, values, tastes.

The only thing keeping you from love is thinking that you need to be perfect in order to be loveable.

When in fact... your imperfections are exactly what makes you loveable!

But if you don't believe that.. and you're hiding them, feeling ashamed of them...

You will repel the very thing you want most.

But when you learn to LOVE your imperfections, LOVE cannot stay away from you!

Like my client N who realized that her "weaknesses" were exactly what her future husband found most charming about her!

Or like myself. I used to think that i was too clingy.
But guess what? When I loved myself despite that, I manifested a man who finds that totally adorable.

When you love yourself despite it all, that's when YOU become magnetic to TRUE LOVE!

ᴊᴏɪɴ ᴍᴇ ᴏɴ ᴍʏ ɴᴇxᴛ ᴛᴇᴀ ᴄʜᴀᴛ ᴇɴᴛɪᴛʟᴇᴅ "ʏᴏᴜʀ ɪᴍᴘᴇʀꜰᴇᴄᴛɪᴏɴꜱ ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ᴀᴅᴏʀᴀʙʟᴇ".... ᴄᴏᴍɪɴɢ ᴜᴘ ꜱᴏᴏɴ!

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TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS aren’t just with partners—they can happen with our children too.

Many of my clients struggled with toxic dynamics with their children before we started working together. This is often a consequence of being "too nice"—constantly people-pleasing your children and sacrificing your own well-being in the process.

Unfortunately, this not only makes you miserable, but also creates a lot of unhealthy relationship patterns in your child, which will greatly affect their future.

If you’re ready to break free from this cycle and build a healthy, respectful relationship with your child, I’m here to help.

Let’s talk about how you can reclaim your boundaries and foster a healthy connection instead.

Not all toxic relationships are with a partner. Many of my clients had toxic ☢️relationships with their children before our work

I am terribly imperfect... but still love the heck out of myself!
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ALL THE BEST THINGS in my life have come easily to me.

The scholarship to do a Bachelors in the US...

A dream job at an American multinational...

A promotion where I jumped 3 levels...

A green card and a job to work in the US...

The scholarship to do an MBA in the UK...

The scholarship to study coaching...

My dream man...

My son...

My daughter...

My profession...

They were all pure manifestations of my HEART desires ❤️‍🔥

And they came to me on a silver plate 👑

When and where I least expected them 🌬

While playing tennis... while watching TV at home... while going on my first hike... while leading a group of lovely women at church... while enjoying my work...

However, the things I didn't surrender?

I didn't get.

Now I know why.

If you too would like to manifest your desires easily and in flow, then my upcoming Masterclass is my gift to you: Surrendered to my Desires.

In it, we will find out:

💝 the 3 most common mistakes when it comes to manifesting
💝 how to choose from our hearts and NOT our heads
💝 how to ask EFFECTIVELY for what we want
💝 how to avoid suffering while we wait
💝 what inspired action is and what it is not
💝 how to accelerate our miracle

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For both women and men.

From my heart to yours 🩷🩵

Sometimes we need to feel our feelings... but other times, we just need to shift them immediately. Do you know the difference?

There is ONE main THOUGHT bringing you down. Your life will change when you identify it and replace it.

AS A PEOPLE-PLEASER, you have LOTS of people and situations in your life that shouldn't be there.

There are the people who chose you... and you let yourself be chosen.... but you didn't choose them.

There are the things that you chose out of fear... fear that nothing better would show up.... but not because you absolutely loved them.

I want to tell you that it's OK to let them go.

More than Ok. It is NECESSARY to let them go.

It can be a friend, a partner, a project, a job...

They are holding you back.

Because you are not being authentic.

Authenticity only comes from love.

By holding on to them, you are not allowing the next version of you to come through.

And that's the version that can MANIFEST YOUR DESIRES!

You CANNOT manifest your desires while staying in the CURRENT version of you.

Your current version manifested your current life.

It is only your NEW version that can manifest a NEW life.

Obviously!

Your new version has new thoughts.

New feelings.

New ways of relating to you.

New ways of relating to Life.

Whereas before your go-to feeling might have been self-pity... your new one might be defiance.

Whereas before your go-to thoughts might have been about self-criticism... your new ones might be of self-pride.

If you want lasting changes, you have to make lasting changes in you.

Not a fleeting change one day motivated by an inspiring movie... or an inspiring quote.

No.

Let's stop thinking that those inspiring quotes we see on social media are going to change our lives.

Because they WON'T.

The changes you need are lasting, sustainable, profound ones.

If you are TIRED of being in VICTIMHOOD....

If you are READY to take the REINS OF YOUR LIFE...

If you want nothing more than to UNLEASH the NEW YOU, then send me a message.

I will take you through my MANIFESTATION FORMULA where I will provide the guidance you need, the reminders to keep you in track, and the occasional kick in the butt when you need it! 💕

This is what has allowed my clients to manifest the love of their lives, get the promotions they wanted, heal their bodies from auto-immune diseases, and go from suicidal to being the stars of their lives!

Only for those READY to TAKE ACTION!